The differences between men and women create a “bottleneck” in the stages of marriage and explain why so many women tolerate their husbands’ affairs; men, on the other hand, will leave an unfaithful wife.
Men cheat because they take it for granted.
They believe that it is their birthright to sleep with different women and don’t think about the consequences of their actions.
Since the beginning of time, there has been a big gap between how men and women view sex and, more importantly, how they view it after marriage. Too many men see sex as a pastime that can be consumed anywhere, anytime, while women see sex as an extension of their relationship and marriage that must be taken seriously and cannot be desecrated in the slightest.
Nowadays, men demand more from women, not only to be beautiful, to have a good body, but also to be educated and have a temperament, nowadays, women demand more from men, too, men should have a house, a car, a career, education, taste and romance. Then they have to be good to themselves and also respect their parents so that they can be called good men.
The question is, is it possible for such a good man not to cheat? Of course it’s hard.
This society offers too many opportunities for “indulgence”, especially for a man who has no shortage of money, education, taste, and romance. I can say that every man with a regular partner expects an outlet for his desires.
Only this outlet does not have to be another woman besides the wife, it could be soccer, basketball, wine, piano, calligraphy and painting, in short, it could be anything, but most men’s desires are primitive and single-minded, so most men choose women for this outlet, and this has led to the situation where the city is now full of cheating men.
However, another thought came to me that there are more and better reasons for women to cheat, so I’ll talk about it briefly.
1. Women have an easier time finding someone than men.
We can’t deny that now, at least in China, the ratio of men to women is a bit out of whack, and there are more and more men, so women have more options than men, and women who are a little more attractive have been chased by a lot of men since they were little;
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There are so many men who cheat who will excuse their stress, but what about women? The pressure of promotion, career bottlenecks, sexual harassment in the workplace, and the problems of housework and children after marriage, do not bear more pressure than men?
3. Women are more eager to be cared for.
This is the biggest difference between men and women. Men like to care for others, while women prefer to be cared for by others. And after marriage most men feel that the relationship has stabilized and are not willing to care more about women, while at this time women need more care both psychologically and physically.
4. The risk factor for a woman to cheat is not great.
Most women, once married, are accustomed to a sense of crisis and henceforth guard their husbands closely, and it is difficult for men to cheat under such a high pressure policy. The woman’s situation is the opposite, most men belong to the hunter type, the woman married home is finished, rest assured that the outside world to spend a lot of time, so the woman cheating is relatively safe.
5. Women are more economical and hygienic when they cheat.
Truth be told, if a man wants to cheat, he has to have silver and status, and the expenses are huge, not any man can afford it, and if he doesn’t find the right person it’s easy to get some unseen diseases.
6. Most women who cheat will not affect family harmony.
Most men cheat on their families, and very few women are willing to be second wives, even if it is for love at the beginning, but it doesn’t take long to get into the house and make the man lose his reputation and his family collapse.
7. This last reason is probably the last one men want to hear, and that is that women have a more dominant physiological structure than men.
A woman can easily maneuver between several men without showing fatigue, while a man would have a hard time trying to deal with two women at the same time. Often, a woman who has an affair can satisfy her husband as usual, while a man who has an affair can only be a wife who basically doesn’t have to.
See, in fact, on the issue of cheating, women have a better position and more advantages than men, but more than 90% of women do not cheat, even if there is some heart, but also know the cliff. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
That’s why it’s most important for women to protect themselves these days.