When blind dates become a part of life, will love really come?
What is the concept of 689 blind dates in 3 years?
“On average, I see one in 1.5 days.” Zhang Xuyang rubbed his head and smiled. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services. He gave the reporter spread a roster, a thick stack, dense registration of names, age, economic status, but also includes the body …… all the girls he has seen in the past three years. “Basically, it covers all industries in China, and even includes offshoots like morticians and crocodile farming.”
This, perhaps, counts as an achievement? The matchmaking that some people are ashamed to talk about, or even embarrassed to talk about, has become a way of life with him. It’s as natural as eating and sleeping.
When dating becomes a part of life, will true love come soon?
Lost after the match
Zhang Xuyang can’t forget his “first time” – in 2007, he was 29 years old, just transferred from the army to an institution, career
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The first time I saw him, I was in the middle of a relationship.
“Xiao Zhang, you’re not young, it’s time to solve your personal problems.” The company’s leadership is very encouraging, and its lonely life makes it difficult for him to be lonely. Soon after, he attended a matchmaking party for 10,000 people.
It was a first try, but he didn’t expect to hit it on the first try. The girl is a flight attendant for China Southern Airlines. The woman’s mother was satisfied with Zhang Xuyang’s personal conditions, and the two soon went out. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
The relationship soon came to an abrupt end.
One day, the girl called: “Come out, I want to buy you dinner.” After the steak was served, the girl fell on his shoulder at once, whimpering and crying: “My ex-boyfriend found me and made up ……” from joy to sorrow, as if it was a matter of seconds. The next sentence, Zhang Xu Yang inaudible, only feel heartbroken.
This matchmaking experience left him with fond memories and untreated after-effects to this day. “I later met girls to compare with her, and never met another one better than her.” Zhang Xu Yang said with a sigh.
Is there a reliable person
In the three years of dating, Zhang Xuyang has seen women of all kinds: “tall, short, fat and thin, from 23 to 39 years old.” The profession also varies, such a huge army, but did not find a good one? The reason behind this is his thundering experience.
Once, a relative introduced him to a language teacher who was good-looking. Talking to four or five o’clock in the afternoon, the teacher said, “My cousin just got married, let’s go see the new house.” Zhang Xu Yang said yes.
The two of them got into the back of a cab.
The two of them got into the back of a taxi and soon after they left, she “snapped” onto his shoulder and said, “Put your arm around me!” The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services. She “snapped” into his arms again, instantly blocking his lips …… “at first also want to push away, can not push,” Zhang Xu Yang embarrassed, said. “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
“I’m going back.” He said after dinner. The female teacher waved her hand, “It’s too late, don’t go back, just stay here. Cousin also echoed. So the two sisters slept in one room, and Zhang Xu Yang slept in one room alone.
In the middle of the night, Zhang Xu Yang was dazed and suddenly heard the door key ringing. “Who is it?” As a soldier, he was instantly alerted. “Don’t turn on the light, it’s me.” Female teacher! He dropped his heart. As soon as she came to lie down beside him, she grabbed his hand and put it to her chest. This touch, frightened he hurriedly retracted his hand …… lights on, but even more heart spurting a mouthful of blood, “a naked, even socks are not worn.”
“What’s wrong?” He asked. “Nothing, that’s what I want.” “Wanted what?” He pretended not to understand. “Do you know how many men want to be good with me?” The female teacher pressed her torso up, and all he felt was blackness in front of him, “This, I really don’t know ……” That night, he fell away.
On another occasion, he met a girl with a “pretty face”. The first thing she asked was, “How tall are you?”
“About 1.78 meters ……,” he replied.
The first thing she asked was, “How tall are you?” My mother told me you were 1.8 meters! The woman was only 1.58 meters, I think. “What, not satisfied with my height?” “Not bad,” she said, “anyway, a man less than 1.8 meters is disabled.” “Hey, I haven’t said you’re disabled!” He laughed bitterly.
Turning to 12 o’clock, “I’m hungry, buy me dinner.” She said. “Okay, you say noodles or rice.” She stared in disbelief, “What a year it is to eat rice and noodles, can you not eat Western food!”
“There are noodles in Western food, too!” He couldn’t help but say this. “That meal cost me over 300 pieces of silver!”
These thunderous experiences made him lament, “What kind of girls are left? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
These experiences are quite impressive: “I don’t think it’s important to look good, but it’s important to understand me and have a common language.”
No dating, no death
But dating was like an invisible river that gradually swallowed up his life. He lost the ability to “fall in love independently.
For three years, he had a “free love” relationship, but within a month of getting together, it went wrong.
“Zhang Xuyang, you have to come with me!” She called again. “
I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to take the time off. He said. “I don’t care what way you use, you have to come out anyway, or else ……” she said in a threatening tone. Zhang Xu Yang did not say “snap” and hung up the phone. He did not bother to appease her.
He has a point, the girl is capricious, but the two of them are in love, to meet the unreasonable requirements of his girlfriend is not also a kind of fun? Zhang Xu Yang does not, “This one does not know what to do, there is the next one.” Matchmaking allows him to interact with the girl too much and too easily. Although there is a sincere relationship in front of him, but did not think to spend time to open up and treat his girlfriend well. “We’re not right for each other.” He broke up with the girl shortly after and continued to devote himself to endless blind dates.
He didn’t seem to have any other hobbies, either. Often, when he is almost off work, Zhang Xu Yang sits alone in his office and wonders what to do after work. The company’s parents are far away in Shanxi, want to eat a hometown food, but also have to go to a restaurant. One person eating is always lonely. “Dudududu”, the text message came again: free in the evening, to help you introduce a girl ……
So then, people after work to play football, singing, games, he blind date – I don’t know when it all became a way of life. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new product.
The matchmaking thing
Over time, people around you know that Zhengzhou has a civil servant brother who takes matchmaking as a meal. The media covered it one after another, and Zhang Xuyang became popular.
While the average person would probably be embarrassed by this, Zhang Xuyang was fine with it and went around selling his “dating science” to people.
The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, the “D.A.R.”. He has a roster of girls with their bodies, looks, and occupations for his “matchmaking” study.
His parents in Shanxi heard about his matchmaking exploits and worriedly asked, “Son, how come you can’t get a date so many times?” “
They’re not the only ones who have been in the market for a long time. He said. He continued to walk and meet people.
At one point, there was a girl he thought “felt good in every way” and thought it was time to settle down, but suddenly he realized he had no feelings left. This is the kind of loneliness that he wants. “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
“I’m mentally normal, and the fact that I was able to be patient with the interview shows that we’re all part of a mentally normal society.”
It seems that Zhang Xuyang has a long road ahead of him in terms of matchmaking.