Eighty-first round.
The master has a destiny to see each other in this life
Come without a sound and go without words
Guys, we are going to tell this story today, it is much more interesting. Because this girl, according to the generation is my sister, according to the age is my school sister, and we two people, almost no intercourse. Specific how a story, then listen to me to tell.
In the traditional Chinese culture, Confucianism has been talking about the word benevolence. The character for benevolence is very simple to write, a single person plus a two. But in it, there is a very deep connotation in Chinese culture. That is to say, one person cannot achieve anything, at least two or more people are needed to achieve the ultimate state of Confucianism. So whether from life, or in society, there will always be some kind of blood relations exist.
From simply seeking support, recognizing a godbrother, to hometown associations, fellowship, and even divisional gangs, this series of blood relations always makes it difficult to separate people from each other. In the traditional society, the teacher, is often a very important place. Large to the demolition of houses and buildings, small to repair pots and pans, each industry always have a master, apprentice such a similar relationship. To this day I still feel that teaching by example, oral transmission is the best way to educate. Only two people living with the same food and living together is not good to find.
I was also fortunate enough to join such a master class, and I studied in the music industry, which is an industry that places special importance on discipline. Basically, two musicians, when they meet together. The topic often revolves closely around the master, the master to start. So in this industry, if you have a master, it is equivalent to your identity is affirmed, your business, your professional, your level is affirmed. My master is an easy-going middle-aged man, who is always cheerful when he sees anyone, and does not like to participate much in the internal rivalry of the industry.
Such a good old boy, is often the result of two. The first is marginalized, this is not exaggerated. The second is a large number of student apprentices. It is important to note here that students and apprentices are two completely different concepts. Students can really touch their heads and count as one, but apprentices must hold a pendulum knowledge ceremony, that is, the ceremony of worship. I was fortunate enough to be the tenth of the first students of Sifu. Master received a total of three batches of disciples before and after, so much so that later we could not count how many brothers we had in the division. Also can not recognize all ……
The girl today, is the third batch of disciples inside one. The first to look at her is not me, but another disciple. They are not considered romance between it, should be a simple unrequited love, my brother wishful thinking. To my feeling, the girl is a very discerning person, but what she likes, there may be insignificant. Then there was a hiccup, the girl’s pad was broken, after which Shidi rashly bought her a new one. In fact, this kind of usurpation is not what anyone wants to see, the girl really did not receive.
I can see that her life is a routine. There is nothing new to experience. And a good story. At that time, I just started to do succulent, and once by chance, I sent a twitter, nine photos are pictures of succulent. She was interested, liked it and replied to me. It was a good start because at least I knew what I was good at and had her hobby. That’s important.
Once she asked me something on twitter, about medical topics, and asked me what I was doing, I asked my assistant to take a picture of me working hard in a sea of succulents, which should be a plus. Then I went to her unit twice to deliver succulents, once she asked for them herself, and the other time, it was a gift she wanted to give to a friend. And my status has changed from that of a teacher to a brother. Slowly, she began to choose to give me some heart to say.
Master has said more than once that her vision is very high, threatening not to find a date before the age of thirty, but I know that this must be false, but I do not understand the reason. Until one day, she told me that the feelings in her eyes are not the same as what we think. She doesn’t think that a blind date and a confession can fix a relationship between two people. She thinks that the relationship between two people should be, gradually warming up, unspoken union. This happens to be very similar to my view of relationships.
I believe that action is the best confession and acquiescence is the best promise. So we now, got to turn every word into action, when we were moving books to our new home, she silently helped me pack each book and numbered the boxes. To thank her, I would pat her on the shoulder. Even put my arm around her waist. She didn’t refuse, which was an acknowledgement of our feelings and relationship. We didn’t say anything to each other about our feelings. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. Maybe it’s true what they say, “I don’t know where it started, but I’m in love.
Of course, when it came time to leave, we also did the same, did not say a word, let each other unhappy words. It’s just that from a daily twitter chat, it gradually turned into once every three days, once a week, and even two months without contact. It started quietly and ended quietly, except for the two of us, no third person knows this story.
The moon is like a hook. The lonely wutong, deep courtyard locking autumn. The most important thing is that you can’t stop thinking about it, but you can’t stop thinking about it. There is a general feeling in the heart ……
Please see next time.
The two encounters are due to the wedding
The unit girl took the initiative to offer herself
ps: just made a periodic table of elements, for your pleasure