A relationship is a relationship is a relationship, whether it’s talked about by phone or in person. The key is to talk, not what to talk with and how to talk.
1. What’s the advantage of the phone call?
The biggest advantage of the phone is that you can infer the mental state of the other person by his voice and tone of voice. The first time you invite someone, use the phone to better convey your enthusiasm.
If it’s a date that you’ve decided on, and you may not be able to finalize the time after sending each other several text messages, it’s much easier to contact each other by phone, with one button dialing and a quick, three-word confirmation. It is a great way to get the most out of your life.
There are also people who met in a party setting, who are likely to have a hard time meeting up afterwards, and who have not been in touch for a long time, because they are not familiar with each other and the impression of each other may have faded long ago. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Texting itself is easy to ignore and gives a sense of “unimportance” compared to phone calls, so it’s not as direct and effective as a phone call.
2. The most important Point—- voice is light and bright, smile on the phone
The phone is a means of communication to judge feelings by voice alone. A low, dark voice is uncomfortable, so try to sound light and bright on the phone. One method that works well is to naturally turn the corners of your mouth up and speak with a smile, and your voice will become bright and cheerful. Many call center employees keep a mirror on their desk and look at themselves to see if they are smiling when they answer the phone; it’s the only way to give the impression of a happy mood.
Try using the above method as a practice to prepare a small mirror for smiling on the phone at first, and over time wait for the habit to become natural so that the smile can be conveyed over the phone.
3. Be more varied in your responses
Just “hmmmm” answers are a little monotonous, so try to be more positive in your responses.
For example, to illustrate with “yeah,” you can use “yeah” and drop the “ah” at the end to make it short. You can use “that’s ah” to show your interest and raise the tone a bit. You can use “Alas, it is ah” to show concern and sympathy for a matter. The other person’s voice is full of emotion and has a real sense of dimensionality, so they feel like they are interacting with you personally, which promotes positive interaction between you.
Also, you can repeat what the other person said. For example, if he says, “I did an important job today,” then you can say, “Yeah, an important job.” Repeating the same words will make the person feel like you’re keeping up with them and will make them feel good.
What are you waiting for? Pick up the phone and call him, and don’t forget to ask him, “Is this a good time to pick up the phone?