A survey of more than 3,000 men and women between the ages of 20 and 65 on their sex life showed that more than a quarter of those who are married or living together have sex less than once a month, and 6.2% have not had sex in the last year. And the “Chinese netizens sexual happiness status survey” also shows that only 32.55% of respondents to their “sexual happiness” life full score, that is, the vast majority of people in the “sub-sexual happiness The majority of people are in a “sub-sexual” state. What is “sub-sexual happiness”? What is the relationship between “sub-sexuality” and women’s health?
Survey shows that 70% of netizens are not sexually happy
A state where one or both parties are not satisfied during sex is called “sub-sexual happiness”.
Only 32.55% of the respondents gave themselves a perfect score for their “sex life”, which means that most people are in a state of “sub-sexual bliss”.
Sub-sexuality has become a common phenomenon that is eroding more and more couples’ relationships, and if not addressed in a timely manner, it will not only endanger their own health, but also the happiness of their families. The reporter recently asked two professors, Jane Bangping and Zhou Shaohu, to analyze the causes and hazards of sub-sexual bliss, and to give advice on how to stay away from sub-sexual bliss.
Interpretation of the case: The interaction of internal and external factors causes sub-sexual happiness
A cab driver, who works long hours every day, comes home physically tired and has an incompetent sex life, and slowly has less and less sex. His wife was very critical of him, and finally he developed a fear of going home, driving home every day first to see if the lights are on at home, the lights are on do not dare to go upstairs, they stay in the car, when the lights go out, only then dare to go upstairs …… Why? I don’t dare to face. In fact, many men with sexual dysfunction are not unwilling to go to bed, he is afraid to go to bed.
Professor Jian Bangping, president of the Taiwan Society of Masculinity, described the physiological root cause of sub-sexuality as the poor quality of men’s erections. The survey showed that 34.89% of women said their partner’s erection status was only “okay”. Of course, in addition to physical reasons, there are external factors, such as the fast pace of modern life, too much pressure, etc. is also the “killer” of sub-sexual happiness. In addition, the computer for a long time in front of the sedentary, or addicted to the game, for a variety of reasons to the partner to lose “sexual desire”, will also cause sub-sexual happiness.
Exposing sub-sexual bliss: destroying marriage is harmful
Destroying marital stability
Sexual life is an important way for couples to communicate. In a sexually harmonious family, couples are both physically satisfied and psychologically secure. Sexually harmonious couples are more tolerant of each other and more energetic. And once sexual disharmony occurs, especially in men with sexual problems or diseases, there can be a long period of time without sex, threatening family stability and even extra-marital sex, leading to family breakdown.
Breaking down men’s self-confidence
A man’s sexuality is a symbol of his male sexuality, and the most satisfying feeling a man can get from sex is the ability to “conquer” the opposite sex. This is one of the most important sources of self-confidence and self-esteem for a man, and once he has a sexual problem, it will undermine his self-confidence.
Social life is not good
In men’s social life, “sex” is often a topic of conversation, sometimes with dirty jokes, sometimes with sex jokes to ease the embarrassment. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to help you achieve your goals. In this regard, expert analysis in the sexual aspects of the problem of men, most of them are more sensitive, reluctant to contact with people. Together with the couple’s relationship is not harmonious, making their life more and more dull and uninteresting. The best solution is to fundamentally improve their sexuality and improve the quality of sex.
Wife becomes sexually frigid
Is she less interested in sex these days, is she unkempt and yellow, has she become less interested in you and your family? Some people say that sex is a thing that “the more you do, the more you love”, although it sounds like a joke, but it is true that a good relationship needs to “insist on love”, “lasting love”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Potential for other health problems
Long-term “sub-sexuality” can increase the likelihood of other diseases. For example, ED is a precursor to cardiovascular disease, and studies have shown that 20% of ED patients have cardiovascular disease; in patients who develop ED, cardiovascular problems are often revealed 3-5 years later.
Expert advice: change your lifestyle to save your happiness
Professor Zhou Shaohu of the Department of Reproductive Medicine at a hospital in Guangzhou said that many men find it difficult to talk about this problem, avoid the disease, or are afraid to rely on drugs from now on. In the clinic, they can often see wives “escorting” their husbands to the doctor. In fact, the specialist will look for the causes of erectile dysfunction and provide reasonable solutions for patients, such as changing poor lifestyles, such as smoking and alcohol abuse, and treating primary diseases, such as hypertension, hyperlipidemia, diabetes, and psychological disorders; along with the right therapeutic drugs, which can effectively improve the sub-sexual situation and allow patients to regain their sexual well-being.
Men who are caught in the dilemma of sub-sexual well-being should seek timely guidance and help from professional doctors. Unfortunately, the survey found that only 17% said they would seek professional help. 66% of patients had ED for more than a year prior to treatment, thus exacerbating the progression of the condition.
Self-test: Are you a cucumber or a tofu
How can men know if they have ED? In addition to getting checked by a specialist, men can actually self-test. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services that are designed to meet the needs of the market. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.