Sex addiction has been considered one of the main “killers” that kill marriages, destroy careers and even erode personal values, so what are some of the everyday ways to ease it? Here’s a look.
STEP 1: Masturbate or help your partner masturbate
Suppressing your sexual desire is not helpful. If the need is great for a sexual partner, it is worth trying to help your partner masturbate to meet the need and make sex more enjoyable.
step2: Reduce the temptation to stimulate
Cool, eye-catching porn sites, adult magazines, porn, etc., tantalize and add fuel to the fire for people who are prone to sexual impulses, so avoid them if you can.
STEP 3: Diversion
Those who have nothing better to do than to kill time with sex may want to engage in leisure activities that require physical effort, such as going to the gym, rollerblading, playing soccer, going on field trips, hiking, etc. In short, go sweat and let off some steam!
The next step up is to take it to the spiritual level:
step 4: Increase opportunities for gender interaction
Do you have a lot of fantasies about the opposite sex, but don’t know how to get along with him/her, thus putting a lot of sexual pressure on yourself? The most important thing to do is to take it easy, engage in club activities, go to shows like Very Good Men and Women, go to pubs to chat, increase opportunities to spend time with both sexes, start courting, fall in love, and have a balanced mind and body.
step5: Review your intimacy with your partner
If you are a couple, cohabitants, or a stable couple, and you try to masturbate or help your significant other masturbate, but you still can’t satisfy each other and move on, you probably have something in mind, and your sexual desire and dissatisfaction are just excuses. You have not had a real heart-to-heart for a long time? The first thing you need to do is to try to find out why your relationship is fractured.
Expert’s advice:
1. Stay away from alcohol and club drugs
The phrase “sex after drinking” needs no explanation. The most important thing to note is that the happy pills and magic water that are circulating in dance halls and pubs can also ruin a person’s self-control and make them feel sad. The most important thing is that when alcohol and drugs are pushed, it’s not worth it to miss out on safety protection and end up being sexually assaulted, or accidentally pregnant or infected with an STD.
2. Too much sexual desire is not an excuse for risky sexual behavior
If you use “I have a need” as an excuse to be obsessed with multiple sexual partners, ONS, selling sex, raping others and other risky sexual behavior, you don’t care about yourself and you are hurting others.
3. Don’t rush to give yourself negative comments
Maybe what you need is to talk to someone or consult a psychologist or psychiatrist to find out what’s wrong.
Don’t want to get addicted to sex, try these N ways to reduce your sex drive! There’s always one that works for you.