For many men, sexual rejection by their wives seems to be a common occurrence, and although depressing, there is nothing they can do about it. The majority of people think that women don’t need sex as much as men because men’s sex drive is not affected by hormones and is easily aroused by visuals.
But this is not the case. Women are mostly sensitive and delicate, and unlike men who are straightforward, they are more susceptible to a variety of factors, including environmental, psychological, physical, and many just trivia. And women, out of reserve, often do not express themselves positively, and so always make men incomprehensible.
1. Feeling fat
Truth: Women are more concerned about their bodies than their looks, and once they feel fat, they are not confident about their bodies. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem of the problem.
Advice: Her nervousness is actually a concern for you, so you should let her relax, such as gently caressing, saying sweet things and so on. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Tummy trouble
The truth: Indigestion and fighting in the stomach are minor ailments, but for women it’s a big loss of face. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
Advice: Take a break and wait until your body recovers. It is important to note that if you are ready to make love, you should not eat more beans, sweet potatoes and other flatulent foods for dinner.
3. During (or around) menstruation
Truth: On the one hand, you are afraid that your body will not be clean and dirty the sheets; on the other hand, you are worried that sex may lead to infection at this time.
Advice: Menstruation is the most vulnerable period for women, the endometrium sheds bleeding, cervicitis, pelvic inflammatory disease and other gynecological diseases are directly related to intercourse during menstruation. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
4. Wearing old lingerie
The truth: This is her secret that she can’t tell. A woman is a woman who wants to please herself, and she always wants to let her lover always see her at her best, not let those old ill-fitting underwear ruin her image.
Advice: Find an excuse to give her a chance to change, such as “I’m going to take a shower” or “I’m out of condoms, I’ll go downstairs and buy some”, and then wait for the surprise when you return.
5. Sweaty
Truth: It’s not a pleasant experience to have a sticky body during intimate intercourse. The hot and stuffy environment not only makes people irritable, but also tends to be less sexual.
Advice: If she keeps screaming about the heat, don’t try to force the issue at this point, it’s not going to be an inviting experience. The first thing you should do is take a shower together and turn on the air conditioning to get rid of the “third party” of sweat.
6. With elders at home or children sleeping around
The truth: Women are especially concerned about what others think, and when elders or children are at home, even if the door is closed, she is always worried that the noise she makes will wake them up. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
Advice: If you are living with your elders, it is necessary to strengthen the soundproofing treatment when decorating.
7. Not in the mood
Truth: Women, unlike men, are “slow” to enter the process of sexual excitement, and sometimes their bodies are not fully in the mood, such as pain, dryness and other discomfort. The fact that this happens many times can leave a shadow on women and make them fearful of sex.
Advice: You can use some lubricant. But while lubricants are effective, enhanced foreplay is a better option.
8. No shower
Truth: Most women are clean and have sex without a shower, and their bodies may still smell a little bad, especially when kissing or teasing, will they lick the dirt off their bodies? These subconscious cues can affect sex.
Advice: Before making love, both partners should wash their bodies clean. It is worth noting that don’t use water that is too hot, as it distributes blood circulation throughout the body, resulting in difficult localized engorgement and less erection.
9, the TV show is not over
Truth: The latest research shows that the frequency of couples’ sex life is reduced by more than half when a TV is placed in the bedroom; the older you are, the more prominent your TV dependence is, and the more serious the impact on sex.
Advice: If you don’t want to compete with a good TV show for sex, you shouldn’t let it into the bedroom in the first place, the “third party” is more attractive than you can estimate, and the living room is the best place for it.
10. A man’s cigarette
Truth: The lingering smoke can be irritating, and if you smoke for a long time, the nicotine in cigarettes can damage tiny blood vessels and cause a decrease in sexual performance, while women are particularly sensitive and disgusted by smoke
Advice: Stay away from Tobacco, at least don’t let it in the house.