Yang Mei and Lu Hao have been married for seven years, and their son, Huanhuan, is six years old and in the first grade of elementary school. The company has been introduced to Lu Hao by someone.
The two of them got married soon after they met, and Lu Hao’s unit was allocated a two-bedroom house, so they lived in peace and soon had a child.
Both of them are working from 9 to 5, with regular weekends off to bring up their children. Although they both came to Beijing from abroad, they have stable jobs and comfortable lives, and their days are quickly coming to a head, like most families.
Before they got married, both of them briefly confessed their love history to each other. Lu Hao said he had liked a girl who was one round younger than him, and because the age gap was too big for anything to happen, he broke up naturally. And Yang Mei married when the girl had not yet graduated from college. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Yang Mei also had one or two boyfriends, who ended up breaking up either because of personality differences or because their life paths were too far apart. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. But after having children, their feelings are getting better and better, in life Yang Mei feel that although Lu Hao does not say much, is a gentle and careful person, very concerned about his wife and children, no small treasury, life is regular, simple social life, let people very relieved. Yang Mei is glad she made the decision, and Lu Hao also feels satisfied with her life with Yang Mei.
But blandness is the most dangerous thing. The little girl Lu Hao liked that year finally graduated from college and also turned out to be a flower, young and beautiful plus naive and capricious, which made the man who was worn out by the blandness of life gradually lose his passions moved. The little girl has her own boyfriend, happy to go to work every day, she is very clear from the bottom of her heart Lu Hao to their own years of love, and very grateful to Lu Hao did not let the pure feelings into a despicable demand, Lu Hao also really never close to the little girl, frankly speaking, not do not want, but always feel that the other side than their own young teenagers, do not want to wait for the little girl grew up to complain about his selfish recklessness. So he also suppressed his desire for a little girlfriend in the bottom of his heart.
Turning the corner is seven years, the little girl became a big girl, a few love storm also gradually matured, she felt Lu Hao is a gentleman, a good man, but also worthy of dating friends. And Lu Hao to their own once passionately in love with the girl can not be all without feeling. The first time I saw him, I was able to get him to come to the house for dinner. The children went to school, the babysitter was given a half day off, and only Lu Hao and the girl were left at home. Years of love in the heart of Lu Hao surge infinite impulse, and the girl also appreciate Lu Hao silently like themselves for so many years but never put forward excessive requirements. Naturally, they went into the bedroom. After that, both of them have some regrets, one feels sorry for his wife, one feels that the pure love has finally fallen into adultery, but there is still a bit of mutual fascination and satisfaction, so reluctantly break up. In this way, Lu Hao became a negative man, and his first girlfriend became a strangely placed mistress.
The girl doesn’t consider herself a mistress because she has her own boyfriend and future life and doesn’t plan to be with Lu Hao. The fact that a man like Lu Hao, who is close to forty years old, is even less likely to leave his children’s wife behind to go live again, he knows very well that this is a drinking relationship.
If the two of them stop seeing each other after that, things will be over, but this kind of thing is always one and two, and after that almost every month Lu Hao finds the opportunity to date the girl once, or a hotel or his own home, and every time the girl is anxious, thinking that this is not interesting, but also think it does not matter, anyway, do not intend to break up other people’s families, stealing food taste good.
But Yang Mei is no fool. First she smelled a special perfume in bed, then she counted the number of “small umbrellas” in the nightstand, and then she heard the neighbors say that a young girl had come to the house a few times, and she felt she had to interrogate Lu Hao about what was going on.
Lu Hao is not a slick person, and when his wife asked, he immediately confessed and knelt down to admit his mistake.
Yang Mei wanted to make a direct appointment with the junior girl, but then thought better of it. She asked Lu Hao to transfer the family’s property and car into her name, and then said to Lu Hao, “I know I’m not young or pretty enough. But you know, I gave you my best years. I am not only your wife, but also the mother of your son. If you decide to get a divorce, I agree, but you have to get a clean break and pay child support every month. If you don’t get a divorce, please tell your girlfriend that you can only get respect if you respect others. If there is another time, I will let you go, because if I do love you, I should let you go after the life you need and the people you like; if I don’t love you, all the more reason to let you go, I don’t want my children to live among seemingly separated parents.”
Lu Hao is really realizing that he was wrong and that life cannot give any one person all, if there is a red rose to appreciate her passion, if there is a white rose to appreciate her nobility. God forbid that a man’s left hand and right hand are roses, because he must leave one hand to pull the children and family. The world outside, beautiful and beautiful, is just a matter of looking at it from afar.
When Lu Hao didn’t know how to say it to her sister, she first proposed to break up, saying she wanted to leave the city and go to the south with her boyfriend, hoping that we would never contact each other again and bury the past deep in the years. Lu Hao wanted to go to say goodbye and send a gift, but finally gave up, thinking clearly that the girl had never loved herself, and the woman who really loved her was on her way to pick up her children from school.
The past is gone and completely dusty
Everyone has experienced first love, and men are more likely to feel emotional because they look back on their innocence after years of polishing in society, because of the vicissitudes. The woman’s attitude towards her first love is different from the man’s. Women prefer the down-to-earth feeling of being visible and touchable in the moment, and like to have this mature and responsible husband around them because it is a direct source of security.
But men don’t. Men may always have a shadow of their first love hidden in their hearts, and also always have hidden regrets, when they broke up for various reasons, and now those reasons have long been overcome, can’t they still continue a romance, or even finish their unfinished wish? I always feel that my first girlfriend is still the same spring breeze smiling lovely, green silk like poetry, charming face, regardless of the actual in front of me – that woman after years of polishing has also changed the mood, may be the “Tongfu Inn” in the sale of kitchen knives Cuilan. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Once the relationship with your first girlfriend has moved on to the real thing, it’s the same as burying the good things that happened back then – it turns out that this fairy sister is no different from the average woman. The body is relieved and the mood of disappointment is quickly sobering to the man, especially since the anticipation after getting is over and continuing is reduced to adultery, never to be hooked up again under the guise of love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So it’s better to let the past go and look at life’s gains and losses with an adult’s mindset.
Being friends with your first girlfriend? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. The human nature is not as strong as we think it is, and besides, men themselves know best, they are not to be tested.
The prodigal son returns, cooking soup is served
When the man has known the mistake and has come home, the wife should not repeatedly rehash the old story. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. No one wants to live in regret and blame for a long time, a long time will certainly attempt to break free, and the same revolution, the first to find theoretical basis, the most readily available reason is the lack of respect, was hurt enough, no feeling for the marriage, or other. It is not important what the reason is, what drives him to make up his mind is that he does not want to be in a position to be judged forever, and it is better to die head on than to die by a thousand cuts.
So when the man who made the mistake comes home, actions speak much louder than words – cook the soup and serve it up. The man is not a fool, he knows his wife is putting up with the aggression, but also knows that this woman for the sake of family stability and happiness and give themselves a chance, he will cherish. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.