In our relationships, some people tend to be accompanied by some rough behavior, and some people are horrified and think it is incomprehensible. In fact, this behavior is not abnormal. Some people abroad have investigated that 5%-10% of lovers in the United States have experienced grabbing, hitting, pinching, scratching, and other behaviors, and can get a lot of pleasure from them.
Of course, these behaviors are still very different from domestic violence, in that both parties are sensible and in control of the situation, and don’t pursue unbearable situations, so they don’t really cause real harm to each other like abusers do.
Little “violence” in everyday life
In everyday life, partners who are deeply attached to each other don’t treat each other roughly, or even say a foul word for fear of hurting each other’s hearts. But when it comes to conflict with each other, things often turn out differently. We often say that the deeper the love the deeper the hate.
There is a couple who have been in love for many years and rarely quarreled. Once over something, they didn’t argue much with each other, except that the girlfriend lunged forward and pinched her boyfriend, who in turn grabbed his girlfriend. This is a pinch and a grab, but on the spot to each other laugh amused. Emotions have been eased. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
The little “SM” in sex
Many men like to change positions and become obsessed with deeper penetration, not necessarily because it brings greater pleasure, but because it escalates the pleasure through powerful and intense movements. .
The “bite” is a common occurrence in rough sex. As sexual pleasure escalates, this gentle action obviously becomes less powerful. When people’s feelings of love intensify to such an extent that they don’t know how to express their feelings, they naturally escalate the kiss to a bite.
Summary
Significantly more women than men use grabbing, biting, and pinching in real life. Men, on the other hand, will act as the initiator in sex, and some couples enjoy playing the SM role in sex, usually with the man being the active one.
No matter how couples live, this kind of little roughness that doesn’t bring physical harm to each other is exactly what can soothe the repressed emotions between couples and release each other’s true feelings.
If, at times, you can’t express yourselves clearly in words, then honey, just “get rough”! It may have a surprising effect. The reason for this is that either of you may become addicted to it, and the situation may change in nature if there is a change in intensity.