I have been with my lover for three years, her husband also has a lover outside, but just the night before last, my lover found her husband and lover out on a trip photos, although she has been with her husband’s feelings in general, the main emotional support is also in my place, but she saw the photos still can not stand, to divorce her husband, she said also do not want me to divorce. I really don’t know what to do now, is it to let her leave, or not to let her leave? Now her husband is dead set on not leaving, saying that if he does, he will kill himself. To be honest, on the one hand, I hope they leave, so that her husband will not fuck my lover (because whenever I think of my lover being fucked by his husband, my heart hurts); on the other hand, I do not want them to leave, and if they leave, my lover will be very hard to live alone. I’m telling the truth, I love my lover, but I can’t divorce my wife, I dream of marrying my lover when I’m old, but now I really don’t know what to do.