Women have always wondered why they are beautiful and elegant, have a career, and are not lacking in love, but they are not married. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But when I really wanted to marry someone, I realized that some of them were not suitable, and some of them went away first. It’s amazing that there isn’t a single suitable candidate! Why is this? Here is a man’s prescription for a woman who can’t figure it out, so please prescribe the right medicine ……
The idea of a good man
This is the most frequent complaint of women who can’t get married. For these people, the men they meet are either not attractive enough or too attractive; good men either don’t exist on the planet at all, or are unlucky enough to meet them, or are all dead. Even if you are lucky enough to meet a few, either married, or can not see. The first thing this woman needs to treat is her own mentality: what is a good man in the end? 30 years old still do not understand, the problem is in themselves. Do you really want to marry the man you love, or a good man? Moreover, there is no label on the face of a good man, nor is there a single standard, rich? affectionate? Considerate? Or what else? The question is what good is a man on good terms if he is not right for you.
Choosing a husband is never a “tailor-made” concept, it’s more like going to the market and picking out a cell phone. It’s a task to choose a phone from the top of the line Vertu to the cheapest Chinese phone that is relatively suitable. You have to abandon the stereotypical idea of a good man, because the good man in a woman’s mind is like an internet bubble, it doesn’t exist, and even if you catch it, it will eventually burst.
Rotty man addiction
The last category is at the exact opposite end of the spectrum, with some women specializing in wasting their youth with rotten men (more often married men who appear to be unhappily married), but with far less awareness of reality and strategic tactics than the second wife family. Their mantra is: “You all don’t know him, he is actually very good to me.” The most important thing is that the company has a lot of money to spend on the company’s business.
There is also a classic case of cross-contamination between a “rotten man” and an “ex-boyfriend,” and women who are soft-hearted or soft-hearted are particularly weak against this germ. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. “. If your brain is confused and can’t stand loneliness, continue to keep this “occasional dinner occasional bed” trouble relationship with him, then don’t blame the old man under the moon also despise you. Please let your brain work once in a while: if you are really good to the universe, for this kind of bad man, wait forever? Think about it!
Ex-boyfriend unrequited love
Yes, the fish that escapes the hook is always the biggest. No matter how ruthlessly you broke up at the time, at this moment it seems as if your ex-boyfriend is the only one with a great personality, good looks, thoughtfulness and tenderness, and a soulful sex life. But remember: all this is history. If it was you who proposed the breakup, please do not consider the issue of face, pick up the phone and dial him now (according to experience, the chances of recovery may still be 5-10%). But if he dumped you, then please forgive me for saying that the chances of Saddam giving up terrorism are definitely much higher than the possibility of you getting back together. Life goes on, please don’t let a memory affect your happy future.
Wolfdog hesitancy fetish
Men have the age-old logic of wanting their future wife to look like a lady on the outside and a slut in bed. In fact, women have pretty much the same line of thought, which is that they want the man she falls in love with to be a wolf with a mysterious temperament, but face themselves like a faithful and straightforward dog. The difference between the two is that the vast majority of men will one morning wake up to the truth that you can’t have it both ways, and then quickly marry a lady (in the world of cheating out there is still afraid to find a slut?) But women delay and wait in this state of indecision until they are past their shelf life.
And the other kind of woman jumps between the two kinds of men. When she is with the wolf, she feels insecure and thinks about it, but she is more secure with the dog. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to meet the needs of its customers. In this way, she jumped around, never thinking clearly which is what she wants. The truth that a man can figure out in an instant, but a woman has to spend a lifetime.
The aimless waiting maniac
The girlfriend is 35 years old and still single, we are all anxious for her, she herself is actually more anxious than anyone else, but she would rather wait than find a random one, there are many men around her who admire her, but most of them are denied by her for one reason or another, she firmly believes that the one who belongs to her She is convinced that the man belonging to her must also be waiting for her somewhere, just two people have not met because fate has not yet arrived, the next one may be. Sometimes we will jokingly say, you are so good, instead of sitting and waiting, why not just go grab. Whether he has a wife or girlfriend, as long as you like, take the initiative well. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The lesson of this story is that “the next one will be better” is an absolutely unrealistic idea. It’s more applicable to someone who has just fallen out of love and is looking for comfort than to you who wants to get married.
Never go on sale
Sales has a golden rule: there is no such thing as an unsold item, only a shopper who can’t sell it. Every woman was once a new product in season, but if you have become out-of-season inventory, the problem is not necessarily in the item itself, but that you are not finding the right way to sell it or the main consumer group. It’s an honorable spirit to insist on no discounts, but if you have a line without a market, it takes a more flexible and clever approach.