No matter how “compatible” the written profile is, most people decide not to go out after a few seconds of meeting, and women have less time to make a decision. In “speed dating,” people are not judged by their written profile, but by their gut. From the first moment they see the other person to the formation of judgment, the whole process is only about 3 seconds, too late to use money, power and other “snobbish” factors to measure. So, don’t give up the opportunity to let your gut make the call.
So there’s no denying that for an unmarried young person, dating can be immeasurably useful. The best thing about blind dates is that both sides know exactly what they are coming to do and are already guaranteed to be effective communication; since the blind date is introduced by someone else, although it is impossible to know everything, but more or less, the credit threshold has been artificially raised and the person can be a little less defensive.
Let’s take a look at the 5 phase considerations in matchmaking!
You can’t be “all things to all people”
“I’m not so far down that I’m looking for marriage, am I? ” I often hear singles who can’t wait to draw a line in the sand to show that they are still worth it. Many older youths seem to have kept this a secret, seeing the draft as a disgrace, especially since some women prefer not to marry for life and will not muster the courage to take this step. As a result, the proportion of foreigners seeking marriage is much higher than that of locals in marriage agencies, and there are more men than women.
The purpose of recruitment is to expand dating opportunities, if the mouth is full of money, 30 years old still adhere to the 20-year-old “on the hall, down to the kitchen, talent and appearance” criteria for choosing a spouse, naturally will lose a lot of opportunities for marriage, and what is the point of recruitment?
Going on a blind date naturally and frankly
The traditional way of meeting someone on a blind date has been rejuvenated in this new era. The biggest advantage of matchmaking is that both sides know exactly what they are coming to do, which already ensures effective communication; since matchmaking is introduced by others, although it is impossible to know everything, but more or less know a little, the credit threshold has been artificially raised, and the parties can be a little less defensive. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
When someone is willing to hook you up, don’t rush to be reserved, waving your hand and saying, “The one I’ve been introduced to must not be as good as the one I met by chance”, “I’m not in a hurry yet”. Accept it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Don’t be obsessed and don’t reject online dating
There must be people who tell you not to believe in the fairy tale of love in online dating, and there are also people who advise you to “die before you see the light”, but there are still many young people who are looking for love in the internet. Facebook dating, dating in the same city …… does not let go of a line of opportunity. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet and the Internet.
To determine if there is a need to meet, it is much more efficient. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Participating in party dating sessions
“Relatively speaking, there are still relatively few associations specifically for singles, and we usually have very few people to make friends with, so we don’t know where to find them.” The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product.
Many young people are reduced to “love poverty”, mainly because of the narrow circle of life, it is difficult to contact the right marriage object. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for young people to make friends freely. The key is whether the activity is innovative and attractive.
The real savior is yourself
Some “single” people have experienced failure in love and have an inferiority complex, believing that they are useless and have no chance of love in this life, while some older youths feel they have no market in marriage and close their hearts to the opposite sex. The fact is that the company’s business is not a good one.
In fact, the real “savior” in choosing a spouse is yourself. You should take the initiative to participate in various social activities, expand your social network, put aside your worries, show your best side, and create opportunities for yourself and others.