Marriage is a war between men and women for the right to speak, economic power and control. As more and more “post-80s” start to get married and start a family, flash marriage, flash divorce, trial marriage, online marriage, no marriage; phoenix man, peacock woman, dandelion …… and so on and so on fashionable rhetoric also followed. post-80s, this attention-grabbing group, even marriage is so so unique, marriage life is much shorter than the expected era The 80s are holding high the banner of love, in the name of love, hurting others, also hurting themselves, more harm should be beautiful love and marriage, 80s marriage is porcelain or glass making? So unbearable!
The love of love will be anyone’s, the love of flowers and snow, play a little false who will not, the love of marriage, no one has the right to speak, the heart is fearful. 80 after the “overall marriage situation is difficult to describe clearly: early marriage and fear of marriage, flash marriage and marathon love, online love online marriage, cohabitation trial marriage, do not live in the marriage only love and so on different forms. The first of these is the “meritocratic marriage”, which is an important reason why the post-80s marriage is so unbearable.
Modern men are deeply regrettable that the car is good to earn, the house is good to buy, is a good wife and good mother is not good to find, generally think that women are too realistic, often looking at not their own people but their own fame and fortune and tickets, said also strange, women in the choice of husband to choose than their own strong, even if they have no ink, but to pose as Snow White, and ultimately also pretend to be deluded. The look of blaming themselves for choosing the wrong husband. And men are different, men chasing women is to serve as a driver, bodyguard, passbook, sunshade, and even a massager, even if you are more excellent, more rich, which does not mean you can not kneel to propose. How many modern women will still say, “As long as there is love, let’s go earn bread together.” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Of course, there are also people who are really bold to get married naked. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. This is a joke! But also barely make ends meet. Whether in the past or now, I believe that many people’s bones are not in favor of “bondage” marriage. The two of them are really to the point of looking at each other in the same bed, the blood pressure rose, heart attack, and there is no possibility of resolving this crisis, then there is no need to force to live under one roof to suffer each other, for the sake of the physical and mental health of both sides, leave it leave it.
For us, marriage is not a companion to live, marriage is the passage of love to a happy ending, but if the beginning of the marriage is purposeful and utilitarian, in the process of marriage and because of all the trivial things and quarrelsome, then the so-called marriage, that is, the beginning of the flash departure. 80 after the marriage, sophisticated and difficult to care for, is destined to be a porcelain, can not be expected, once touched, unbearable. Once touched, it is unbearable.