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Don’t let your professional habits murder love

I remember when Zhou Xun, who won the Golden Horse award with “If-Love,” cried at the ceremony and said, “I especially want to thank Daqi for putting up with my bad temper during the filming of “If-Love.” The company’s first-ever “Love” was a major success.

It’s no coincidence that Liu Jia Ling, who has been promoted to Mrs. Liang, says loving Liang requires great tolerance and understanding.

The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product.

In the past, we thought that careers hurt love and were limited only to neglecting your him because of work. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product for the company. However, according to Japanese relationship psychologist Dizuki Omiya, the impact of professional habits on love is more profound than the impact of a couple’s lack of time together, and he even listed ten categories of people who are prone to falling out of love, including lawyers, journalists, managers and teachers.

Professional mantra and tiny wounds

My friend Xiao Shan was once viciously called Miss “Get it” by an ex-boyfriend. She worked in a foreign educational institution and brought her patience with students into love, asking “Got it?” when things got tough, so she was criticized by her ex-boyfriend’s mother as “self-righteous and overbearing. I understand that as an adult, no one wants to be asked “Got it?” at every turn, and I understand even better that Xiao Shan, who is an excellent teacher, doesn’t realize that a work mantra can murder love. The reason for this is that they rarely die from serious illnesses, and even the more they encounter a major life and death event, the more they will stage a “Korean drama love”, but it is so fragile that the love that doesn’t end is always due to the smallest injuries in everyday life.

Zhang Jing, a flight attendant who has been in the industry for six years, said the last thing they want to do is fly the New York route, “which is a polar flight of about four hours, the closest to the sun, which is a very harmful radiation area. Flying a New York route, the body’s white blood cells from 40,000 to less than 4,000, not even one tenth.” The health curve of love in the industry of flight attendants is also similar to that of flying to New York, and after one trip to the poles, the health value of love is often only one tenth of the value left.

“While the career of a flight attendant is glamorous in appearance, the reality can only be described as ‘cold’. Many passengers boarding the plane often look indifferent in the face of our warm greetings, and some guests will deliberately pester and embarrass flight attendants.” The difference in the positioning of professional roles, so Zhang Jing in private life at every turn on the agitation or anger, her boyfriend was once stunned, “You became a flight attendant, how like a different person?” The company’s newest product is a new product, a new product that will be released in the next few years.

There is a joke about a policeman who had a fight with his wife because she asked him to hit a mosquito, and he killed a mosquito that was full of blood, but left a mosquito that hadn’t sucked blood yet. When the mosquito attacked his wife ferociously, she blamed him for not killing it earlier, and he justified it by saying, “Because there was not enough evidence.” When this is put down on paper, it can easily become a joke, and in fact each of us can be the maker of such jokes.

A male friend once cautioned me from personal experience to never marry a woman in sales, whether for love or money, they count too well, and his ex-wife, I’m told, had to calculate the input-output ratio of time even to sleep with him ……

It’s said Medical professionals are prone to sexual frigidity, especially obstetricians and gynecologists, because they can easily see the human body as an organ breakdown chart. In an internal forum, a head nurse once wrote this sentiment, “He eventually left me because he said he felt that inside my eyes, looking at everything was empty, as if he was also treated as a pacemaker, not a man who would make a scene …… “Because they often face death and illness, they will unconsciously get used to indifference, that is both a professional attitude and a potential self-protection. “If one spends all day grieving for the pain of others, how should one face it?” That head nurse asked rhetorically.

Teachers can be good mothers but hardly good wives, because not only do they tend to bring home bad feelings, but they can be the “ironclad wives” with the strongest desire for transformation. The survey showed that 16% of teachers have very high levels of professional stress and consequent emotional distress, and some women teachers have a tendency to not only punish students physically, but even to beat their husbands and children in domestic violence.

Moderator Cui Yongyuan calls himself the most dull husband ever because “after talking too much outside, he doesn’t want to say a word when he gets home. Many women writers admit they are easily disappointed in men because they keep too many unrealistic fantasies and think they know best, but end up losing them most easily.

Tracy is an insurance saleswoman whose boyfriend’s entire family nearly collapsed because of her dedication. “Yesterday, a 23-year-old girl got breast cancer, thanks to buy our company’s insurance ……” “Annie’s husband died in a car accident, I had advised her to buy him a personal accident insurance, but she did not listen, and now she must be very sorry …… “Usually, Tracy’s dinner conversation starts with work and goes on until no one can eat. At one point, when her boyfriend forgot to buy insurance on a flight, she said, “How can that be? Once the plane falls off, you’ll make over $100,000 less than everyone else.” She felt she cared about her boyfriend and his family, and they judged her as cold, money-hungry and worldly.

The day before yesterday, Lara Liu, a sales manager at a company, had a big fight with her boyfriend because when he was tempted by an expensive adult scooter, she tried to use the same “costing” method she had used countless times to convince customer service that it was a “stupid idea”. “. “I didn’t have to buy it, but I hated seeing her smugly think that her extensive professional experience had saved me.” Lara Liu’s boyfriend said. This is not the first time they have argued over it, and it will probably not be the last. And a male friend once cautioned me from personal experience to never marry a woman in sales, whether for love or money, they count too well, and his ex-wife, I’m told, had to calculate the input-output ratio of time to even sleep with him ……

The big difference between love and career is that when you don’t try to control a man, he willingly controlled by you.

Women love to say, “I don’t care what the reason is, you should always report back to me when you’re late.” I’m sure no man likes the word “report,” although I’m sure it’s just a slip of the tongue or a careless idiom when she’s angry.

Maybe it’s just another battle to get your man to accept that you need professional fulfillment as much as he does. So you can at least adjust yourself. Try “role spacing” – a list of personality roles, how many roles you have to take on, and the different needs you face: your clients need you to be smart, your boss needs you to be professional, your husband needs you to be professional. Your client needs you to be professional, your boss needs you to be professional, and your husband needs you to be just his woman at home. …… is limited in space and time to one role in one area.

Cherry, a female counselor, solved her problem this way, “You can even try to run your relationship as a professional role as well, scheduling family matters into a lightning fast schedule, and being as good a ‘professional’ as you are required to be. successful ‘wife’ or ‘lover’, and remind yourself to enjoy the sense of accomplishment that comes with it – the ‘danger’ of doing so

Your man invites you to a party you’re not interested in, and if your response is “I have more important things to do,” it’s clear that you’re not Separate your professional role from your family role. In a family, there is nothing more important than two people being together, and you might say, “I’m tired, can I go with you another time?”

A survey by the University of Chicago showed that wives who are paid more than their husbands are more likely to bring their work emotions home with them. This may explain why women who are successful in the workplace are more likely to be leftovers.

“I’m stressed at work, he should understand and put up with it!” That’s what female executives often think when they’re cold at the dinner table on a date, or when they get angry at their boyfriend’s “retarded” jokes. However, Michelle, the first lady of the White House, who used to earn nearly double her husband’s annual salary, never thought so: “You can bring back productivity, but you shouldn’t bring back work emotions.” In the eyes of Mr. President, she is a humorous woman rich in self-control, who tells him like a friend what he should or should not do, and praises him like a real wife: “You were born with the great man gene.” And he, in turn, says this about her: She’s my boss.

The big difference between love and career is that when you don’t try to deliberately control a man, he is willingly controlled by you.

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