Nowadays, we often hear many female friends complain to their boyfriends. “
“It’s been four or five years since we fell in love, and we’re almost at the end of our lives, but he always keeps his mouth shut about marriage.
“When we make love, his eyes are always closed and he doesn’t even look at me, sometimes he even calls out other people’s names ……”
“Whenever he sees a colleague’s girlfriend, his eyes always shine and he keeps praising other people’s girlfriends for this and that.
Whenever you see a colleague’s girlfriend, he always looks at it with two eyes, always praising other people’s girlfriends for this and that, but to me there is only a mouth full of complaints, so I have no confidence at all ……”
What men see are the advantages of other people’s girlfriends, in her boyfriend’s opinion, also has many flaws. Many relationships do not have flaws, what is lacking is that you do not have the mindset and eyes to appreciate relationships ……
Men, most of them have the common problem of pursuing good girls, freshness and new opposites. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Why do men like other people’s girlfriends and have no feelings for their own? This comes from four main psychological factors!
One, perspective determines psychological feelings
For their girlfriends, the quiet fading of time slowly wears away the passion of the past. That once full of merit, in a pair of eyes that stare at it closely, gradually lost its color. And because of the compatibility of the curtain towards the curtain, those once unseen mottles stand out. Gradually, a girlfriend full of advantages becomes full of disadvantages.
And other people’s girlfriends, because they are just looking from a distance, all you see is the good. The two are getting worse and worse compared to one’s girlfriend and someone else’s girlfriend is getting better and better. This then makes some men feel less and less about their own girlfriends and more and more appreciative of other people’s girlfriends.
This is a good example of the saying – it’s easy to love each other and hard to get along. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main reason is that it’s not a good idea to have a good time.
Second, the psychology of seeking new and different
Their own girlfriend, a long time, no longer fresh. The days are long and the passion is diluted by time. And other people’s girlfriends, because they do not get, always feel fresh. There will always be infinite reverie, that body, that torso, that every possible detail, will bring infinite passion. This mentality of wanting to be fresh and to experience different feelings is the reason why most men fantasize about other people’s girlfriends.
So, women, change your hair, clothes, and bed skills from time to time to give your boyfriend a different experience, so that your boyfriend is always fresh and excited about you.
Three, the psychology of conquest
For those how they look good to someone else’s girlfriend, getting her heart is a conquest. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. This desire to conquer is a man’s unique dominance, but also to affirm their own and inspire self-confidence and passionate performance. The more you have to do, the more you want to get, and the less you get, the more you have to get.
For men’s conquest mentality, women may want to try occasionally rejecting your boyfriend and being pampered so that your boyfriend doesn’t get what he wants so easily. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The man will have a great sense of satisfaction.
Fourth, men need a sense of accomplishment
After experiencing a fresh, satisfied desire to conquer, the passion that was induced will be eager to experience the next, and then the next, and then the next fresh. This new and different again and again, will let those men again and again to get the pleasure of conquering others, and these will let them more and more sense of accomplishment. Some even set goals for themselves, locking in certain people, or reaching a certain number.
A lot of women nowadays will buy a lot of uniforms because their boyfriends have this kind of complex. Women are willing to play many different roles for men to conquer and satisfy their sense of novelty and accomplishment.
However, men need to be reminded that you are always staring at someone else’s girlfriend, and your girlfriend may be staring at someone else. When you snicker for feeding a cuckold to another man, you may have been firmly fastened by a string of cuckolds.
So men should never put this complex into action for themselves, and women, too, should find ways to keep their boyfriends firmly on their side.