When you figure out that desire for free space in a man’s heart, you feel that home is sometimes a cage in a zoo for men – being in a cage, what they really desire is still the unrestrained forest, the meadow.
It’s said that men are very aggressive, and that’s because their freedom, their discretion, their activity, their interaction is compromised.
So it’s important to take a “laissez-faire” approach to men.
5 favorite states for men:
Private space
Many newlyweds complain to their buddies that they don’t have the old days anymore! The “old days” meant having free rein to do whatever you wanted to do with your time.
After a few years of marriage, men feel they have become a “yo-yo” in the hands of their wives – a little farther away, they are pulled back by their wives’ strings.
Say what you want
“What can’t you just say?” Many men have voiced this complaint. Women love to express their thoughts in circles, and even the smartest men can’t keep up with women’s brains. The woman’s attitude is to “ignore” the conflict – not to talk, not to talk on the phone, not to eat, not to share a room and so on “cold violence”. In fact, men want to deal with problems between two people in a simple way.
Reluctance to manage money
If men are single and spend as much as they earn, don’t expect them to change when they get married. They feel that personal finance is a hassle and they might as well put their experience into a hobby. So men hand over the financial reins of their homes to women because they are too lazy to bother.
Dynamic relaxation
Aside from sleep and necessary work, men always seem to like to move – a passion for outdoor sports like ball games and hiking is certainly not in doubt, and even at home, they want to have music to go with them. If you want a man to stay in peace and quiet, he will be bored to death.
Non-conformity
Come home and take off your shoes and fling them with your feet instead of putting them in the shoe closet; get up late in the morning without folding the covers; brush the dishes after they are used up; and the list goes on and on. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So a woman’s rules with a board will only make men nervous.