I bought my own house and car, and my mother-in-law said I was not blessed and her son was blessed and used my ready-made without having to work. There are many things I keep inside and I really want to divorce.
Mr. has been studying in the US for 7 years now, and since he didn’t accomplish much, he couldn’t get a good position when he came back, so he has to stay in the US until he feels he can get a good position.
I waited so hard for so many years, bought my own house and car. Recently, due to renovating the house, I had to ask my in-laws to come and help. I try not to care about the thoughts and reluctance that flow during their time.
On Mother’s Day I bought my mother-in-law a 3,328 yuan jade bracelet, and at the end of the day I bought a set of several hundred dollars of clothes, and when I first arrived I bought my father-in-law several hundred dollars of a pair of wine, probably because I didn’t buy clothes for him, and he doesn’t look good these days.
Mother-in-law is the kind of person who doesn’t have a brain and doesn’t turn a corner when she talks, even if it’s hard to hear.
The father-in-law is the kind of person who has a scheming and gloomy personality.
They are very good on the surface, but in private they say bad things about me.
It is clear that some of my mother-in-law’s words are my father-in-law’s words, and I am very tired of earning money, managing my children’s studies, and making a career.
But my mother-in-law recently started saying something about me being the one who is not blessed and that her son is blessed to have me, a capable person, to help her son earn good ready-made things (house, car) when her son comes back with ready-made ones.
I almost had a car accident that day, and my mother-in-law said I was the one who wasn’t lucky enough to have a car and a house, and then I didn’t have the luck to enjoy it and had to get into a car accident.
I suspect that she wants me to die because I earned the money to buy the car and the house, and my husband is studying abroad and has little money to give me, so instead of sympathizing with me and feeling sorry for me, she says these things.
To be honest my heart is quite good, she often has this kind of delicious and lazy words, so the children’s grades also dropped after coming. But I didn’t take this into account because she is an old person and I am an educated person.
Yesterday she suddenly said to my feet that my feet are like pig’s feet, and that I am not fat as a person, but my hands and feet are fat.
When she said that, I was uncomfortable, but I didn’t say it back, but I was really uncomfortable.
This kind of thing and this kind of stupid talk is too much in my mother-in-law’s mouth to list.
Please help me out. I am very traditional and want to get a divorce and can’t make up my mind. Please give me the courage to make this decision. My reason tells me I should get a divorce, but I just can’t make up my mind.