What are the bad sex psychologies of Chinese wives?
What are the bad habits of Chinese wives?
Forcing a husband to become a “dragon”
Obviously, women who think this way tend to have a strong sense of vanity, as the saying goes: “The husband is proud of his wife. “The company’s main goal is to provide a strong, reliable, and reliable service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to strive for excellence, but if you do not create pressure according to the actual situation, it may be counterproductive.
The unkempt
There are few women in China who do this, especially after having children and gradually entering middle age. The woman tends to have the following psychology: one is the “safe deposit box” mentality, thinking that the “revolution” has come to an end and that the horse can be released to the south, so dress casually and no longer pay attention to grooming. Second, the slack mentality. Is no longer “strict requirements for themselves”, everything is sloppy and sloppy, just get by. The love of beauty everyone has. Do you think such a woman can not let her husband down? Husband may not say, but the heart understands it. This is where the real danger lies.
The woman who doesn’t fix her face and is willing to be yellow-faced is too careless.
Suspicious and arrogant
Suspicious women are often motivated by a lack of confidence in their marriage and a lack of confidence in themselves. The woman is always worried about her husband’s emotional displacement or cheating behavior because of her lack of confidence in her marriage; she is afraid of being abandoned by her husband one day because of her lack of confidence in herself. The root cause of the lack of self-confidence is the lack of independence, in the lack of understanding of the nature of marriage. As for the arrogant wife is often frustrated husband, there are difficult to say, and directly affect the harmony of the couple. In a word: a suspicious and arrogant woman is pathetic.
Disregard for the dignity of the husband
You can be sarcastic about a man’s unattractive appearance, but you can never laugh at his incompetence. The ability to earn money as well as the ability to have sex are the two main aspects of a man’s dignity. The man who does not feel dignified will often give up on himself and feel inferior to himself. Therefore, the smart wife always try to maintain the dignity of her husband, through a variety of “fancy words” and “technical means” to motivate her husband to sail through the waves, to revive the masculine. In a word: women who do not know how to maintain the dignity of their husbands are too ignorant.
Love to compare good vanity
Some people describe women as a city’s landscape, so if there is no woman to compare with each other, the competition, how can the landscape “bright” it? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. This excessive vanity often makes those who are not “wealthy” men produce mental tension, and even overwhelmed by this. In a word: the love of climbing good vanity of the woman is too “horrible”.
Thoughtfulness is not a concern
Thoughtfulness is not a concern for those who consider themselves “wise wives” a common problem. Some wives complain about their husbands: they care for them and take good care of them, but they are still not satisfied. But she may not know that she consciously or unconsciously, consciously or unconsciously cold or derogatory to her husband’s friends and relatives, resulting in the husband’s resentment. The union between a man and a woman is not only an interaction between two people, but also involves the interaction of different social relationships (such as family and friends) between two people. Ignoring such social relationships often deepens the feeling of marital “siege” and breeds the desire to break out of it. In a word: women who are not considerate are pathetic.
Neglecting sex
Because of the influence of thousands of years of feudal thought, most people in China are afraid of sex, especially women’s sexual desires are suppressed, and their active sexual needs are seen as “indecent” and “sluts. “. In line with this, they see sex in marriage only as a way to pass on the family line, to have children and have to do things. This deviation of sexual concept makes them away from sexual pleasure and enjoyment, causing a de facto separation of sex and love. Modern marriage should be the harmonious unity of sex and love. A harmonious sex life not only helps the couple’s love deepen, but also helps the couple’s physical and mental health.
Lack of housewifely consciousness
Housewifely consciousness and housewifely competence are closely related, and both ultimately involve the question of how well women play their domestic roles, mainly referring to the role of wife and mother.
There is a saying: “To capture the heart of your husband, you must first capture his stomach. Of course, this statement is too traditional, but it reveals a certain amount of truth. The impact of women with poor housekeeping or domestic skills on marital and family life is self-evident. “Out of the hall, into the kitchen” should be a pursuit for modern women.
Random disclosure of privacy
Family is the most private place and marriage is the most intimate relationship. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. In fact, this is very undesirable. It “betrayed” not only the husband, but also “betrayed” themselves, “betrayed” the whole family. It is often said that the family is a warm harbor. If the privacy of the individual is not guaranteed, how can the marriage and family life be warm?
The desire to control the husband is too strong
The desire to control the husband is too strong and is a “common disease” in modern marriages.
The “desire to control the husband” is a common disease in modern marriages. The reason for this “disease” is multifaceted: the wife is suspicious and suspicious because of lack of self-confidence, because of “caring” husband and worrying about everything, because of fear that her husband “become bad” and always guarded, and so on. And so on. The “desire to control the husband” is too strong, stabbed not only the husband, but also includes her own, always under the state of anxiety and tension and can not control. There is a saying: “The road is one foot high, the devil is one foot high”. The “control” and “anti-control” will not stop, why not be a smart “husband” master, let the husband happily become a “free man “The first thing you need to do is to be a good judge.