The relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law is so delicate! It’s not good enough to be far away, but it’s not good enough to be close! Even if they don’t get along with each other, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law will have taboos to get along with each other, and below, I’ve summarized six taboos for you to get along with your mother-in-law!
1. No shouting for help
Shouting for attention without giving in, or not knowing the etiquette of giving an inch to your elders, will make your mother-in-law feel cold for you! If you don’t want to make a family scandal out of your mother-in-law’s quarrel, you might as well just tell your mother-in-law, “Dear mother-in-law, I don’t really want to argue with you!”
2. No attacking weaknesses
Many mothers-in-law report that they dislike those who are usually chattering, arguing like a living, breathing shrimp, and always picking and choosing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. No mouthing off
Two hundred percent of mothers-in-law say that they hate it when self-righteous daughters-in-law accidentally start to lose control and hit each other in between arguments. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
4. No sulking
No matter how virtuous you are, no matter how sensible you are, if you face your mother-in-law all day and all night with a bitter face, it will probably take less than an hour for the in-law disputes to start flying again.
After the inadvertent conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not to be grudging, not to be cloudy, not even regardless of each other’s comments, not only will not let the mother-in-law to take revenge, but also in time to defuse a more intense war, why not do it?
5. Forbidden to leave home
“I’ll go back to my mother’s house if you protect her again!” “You’re not just going to ignore me and the kids for her, are you?” The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem of the problem of the two women, and to make it easier for him to make the wrong choice, so that you can go away and put the dispute to rest. You should know that there is no man who does not love his mother.
6. No bad language
When the mother-in-law is in conflict, it is still necessary to take the lower hand in front of her, otherwise your original personal image will only make her more furious, which is not good for the health of the elderly and the filial piety of the daughter-in-law!
Note: Today, as society continues to develop and progress, people’s literacy and overall quality has improved greatly, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is gradually getting rid of the shackles of feudal ruling traditional concepts.
But conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are often the focus and core of conflicts in a family, and understanding the taboos of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can reduce friction between them.