Don’t blame us for flash marriages and flash divorces …… It’s just that after 80 we don’t know how to handle this mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship!
Conflict 1: My mother-in-law always thinks I’m not good enough
Mothers-in-law are not mothers, they always have a critical attitude towards their daughters-in-law, and many things are not as accommodating as they are to their own children, but for the arrogant post-80s girls, how can they stand to be pointed out by their mothers-in-law? The conflict is about to start!
Contradiction No. 2: My mother-in-law is always looking out for my husband, and I have to do everything at home
This should be the unanimous voice of many post-80s girls nowadays. The old generation’s idea of women being in charge of the home and men being in charge of the outside is a very normal thing, so the requirements of the daughter-in-law are relatively high, but which of the girls in the post-80s now will do the housework before they get married? The number of girls who can do housework before they get married is very small …… so conflicts are inevitable
Conflict three: mother-in-law looks down on my family
This conflict often arises in the case of girls who marry well, and now with the development of society, many parents want their daughters to marry There are certainly good aspects to this, but often bad aspects come with it ……
Conflicts unfold in such a situation.
Conflict four: mother-in-law likes to interfere with our lives
Very many post-80s guys grew up under the uncompromising care of their mothers, and even after marriage, your mother-in-law still treats your husband – the backbone of the family – as a child, often Let you cry and laugh, they enter your room at will, randomly change your room furnishings. Let your life into chaos, but the mother-in-law is still top hat of good people, such a situation, how the conflict will not happen?
Conflict 5: Completely different values
If you have a mother-in-law who is stylish and knows how to live, you are lucky! But what if you meet a conservative and frugal mother-in-law? It should give you a headache, right?
The quality of life is a very important indicator of the freedom of life for post-80s girls, but this may not be the case for your mother-in-law’s generation, so it’s only a matter of time before you start to argue.
Contradiction 6: I don’t agree with my mother-in-law’s way of parenting
Educating children is originally a parental task, but because of the current state of China, bringing up children has become the job of the older generation, and you can see older people taking their children to tutorials on the streets of any city. But is it really that the post-80s parents are not willing to manage? Or is it more so that the mother-in-law and father-in-law instead of no room to intervene?
Contradiction #7: My mother-in-law thinks I shouldn’t wear makeup after marriage
The older generation’s idea is very simple, a woman this life is to marry a good man, since you are already married, why do you need to spend so much money to dress yourself up after marriage?
The mother-in-law’s idea is not wrong, but the fault lies in the fact that there is too much social strife nowadays. If you become a yellow-faced woman after marriage, will your husband still love you as much as he did before marriage? The mother-in-law only focuses on the daughter-in-law and forgets about the son’s aspect.
Conflict eight: after marriage mother-in-law wants me to have children immediately
Nowadays, many of the post-80s get married to support their parents when they are still relatively healthy to help bring up the children, but there are also many independent post-80s girls who want to work when they are young so that they can reach a certain level before considering having children, but in the In the eyes of the mother-in-law, getting married means having a baby, so often the bane of ambivalence is stored.
Contradiction 9: Mother-in-law demands husband and me to repay the favor
The story of urban peacock woman and rural phoenix man is staged every day in every corner of the city, true love is invincible, and very many of such combinations finally succeed in becoming a couple. But what about after the marriage?
How can the peacock woman’s pride understand the kind of nurturing heart her mother-in-law has for the phoenix man? The mother-in-law’s constant demands make the post-80s peacock woman physically and mentally exhausted.
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