In recent days, a group of “Shenzhen Planning and Land Commission twitter disinformation net rumors of civil servants indecent photos” by netizens on twitter and major forums, photos of two men and women in front of the table naked and make indecent actions, to 10 has caused netizens crazy forwarding and comments, twitter said The two people in the photo are civil servants in Shenzhen, the man surnamed Liu is a civil servant of the Planning Bureau, the woman surnamed Zhang is a civil servant of the Taxation Bureau. The two people in the photo are civil servants of Shenzhen, the man surnamed Liu is a civil servant of the Planning Bureau and the woman surnamed Zhang is a civil servant of the Taxation Bureau.
It has long been a cliché for office romance. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to provide the best possible service to their customers.
The competition in today’s society has always kept the office in turmoil, so the team spirit in the office is very important. A team of close, if they are not positioned correctly or have ulterior motives, the office of private love between men and women is also very common. The British had done a social survey in the 1980s showed that a surprising 28% of the office women had had an affair in the office, of which a surprising half of them said they did not regret it. The New York Post also reported that a well-known magazine and website had conducted a survey of 31,000 Americans through an Internet questionnaire. The results found that 42% of those who admitted to having had an office affair were married; according to Ming Pao, a survey done by a service organization in Hong Kong showed that more than 90% of the extramarital affairs had the following common features: the third party was a friend or colleague of the cheating party; their relationship happened very unintentionally, but it was very difficult to pull out midway. It is evident that office romance is a very worrying situation, as it brings about “love over time” and also brings about problems such as extra-marital affairs, scandals and cheating.
What makes people like relationships in the office?
Reason #1: Attracted by charm
Many men with successful careers have a fatal attraction in the eyes of the opposite sex, especially new women in the workplace. These successful men generally hold high official positions, and in the maturity of the company’s development, it is inevitable to maintain an appropriate distance from the employees in order to maintain authority. Their emanation of personal charm is an important parameter to attract employees …… the same many female elites are also hot attention of the opposite sex, behind the scenery of strong women hiding ordinary female tenderness. Such a charm index will make many people swoon.
Reason 2: Seeking career and pleasing bosses
Power, position, and money are extremely tempting to people. Some women, but also some men, are attracted by higher positions and better pay, and want to exchange these things through office ambiguity, or even physical affection. So, they do not hesitate to take the risk, risking a huge ambiguity with their bosses …… Unfortunately, in this game, the worst is often the lure party is not the lured party, they often end up in disrepute, but also tragically dismissed from the company. After all, a boss is always a boss.
Reason #3: Thrill-seeking
The simplicity of women’s suits and their unique beauty attracts the scorching eyes of many men. Dark knee-length skirts trim women’s rounded hips, leg-hugging stockings reveal women’s softness, and high-heeled shoes show women’s slender bodies …… office women, always in their made-up, perfect form, give men infinite room for imagination. The male wears a straight suit, not slightly bulging “general belly”, the weapon, also attracts the attention of women. This way, the office romance becomes more exciting and wonderful.
Women, such a boss, please pay attention!
1. A boss who often asks female colleagues to enter the office in the name of work, or even works late with them alone.
2. A boss who is overly concerned about the personal life of his female colleagues.
3. A supervisor who makes frequent demands on the dress code of his female subordinates.
4. A supervisor who often promises higher salaries and higher positions for female colleagues.
5. A boss who often looks lustfully at his female co-workers.
6. A boss who often asks female co-workers to travel together.
How to deal with office romance?
Way #1: Think twice before you fall in love with your boss
While foreign studies show that 64% of female workers improve their work after having an office romance with their boss, in some companies supervisor-subordinate love is strictly forbidden. Even if the company doesn’t prohibit it, be careful, because if you’re the one asking for a breakup, there are so many opportunities for him or her to “return the favor” that you’re guaranteed to be in hot water every day.
Way #2: Think twice about falling in love with a subordinate
In March 2005, Boeing President and CEO Stone Sever was forced to resign after an office romance came to light. Although the affair took place under a two-way street, it underscored the trend of social and shareholder concern about corporate governance, and the board had to raise the bar on executive behavior. It’s hard to separate public and private affairs when you’re in love, and even if you think you do, whether others agree is another matter. Even if you two are in love, the risk is still quite high. If the relationship does not end well, it is dangerous to be a supervisor, and the other party may sue you for abuse of power. You could lose your job and be sued.
Way 3: Be honest with the person you’re in love with
If you’re just looking for a break from loneliness, don’t let them think you’re considering marriage. It’s important to be honest about this, especially in the workplace, otherwise you’re likely to be the target of retaliation after a few dates when the enthusiasm suddenly cools, or even turns to other people of the opposite sex in the office.
The Chinese culture and concept determine the fruitlessness of office romance; so once the story is out in the office, it is also the same as opening a jealousy tank. The work and private love stirred together, not only will affect the normal relationship between the upper and lower levels or peers; also make the work into an awkward situation. To develop an office romance, one must be cautious and then cautious again.