Women always feel the difference between men before and after marriage, but may not know what men really want behind this difference.
What is the difference between a man before marriage and a woman after marriage?
Man’s first emotional stop: before marriage
Before marriage, a man wants to have a beautiful, educated and gentle woman with him.
Because of the beautiful, so the “eye”, both pleasing to the eye, but also “beautiful”; because of the knowledge of books and manners, must be well-educated, cultured, poised, charming as the TV series “also Zhuge Ge” of Ziwei, the man’s face There is light, the heart is also balanced; and the reason why the gentle woman is full of masculine men, because the woman’s feminine beauty, can make the man too much “just” character to produce a kind of reconciliation, so that the “yin and yang complement each other”, “rigid and soft together”. “just soft”. No wonder our mentor Marx most admired the virtues of women is the word “gentle”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The second station of men’s emotions: after marriage
After marriage, the man, not only dependent on women, and obey orders. The reason is that there is a good wife at home, so that the man deeply feel the feeling of home is really good. The home thus becomes a man “resting harbor”, “warm paradise” …… in order to live up to the expectations of his wife, men tend to work harder in the career, more progress, more outstanding.
As the years go by, men’s careers become successful and the “honeymoon” between husband and wife is no longer a “honeymoon”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
At this point in time, the man, due to frequent socialization and increased temptation, is in a different state and behaves differently when facing the woman of his choice, regardless of the purpose. The first is to show that the ideal is lofty and not a mere mortal, with outstanding professional level to win; second, to show that the talent is high or rich in five cars, on the knowledge of astronomy and geography, down to know the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, can be said to know everything, everything, as if erudite, can predict the future; third, to show that the language is funny and witty, full of humor. Regardless of the three religions and nine streams, or the ancient “house art” topics can be integrated, and speaks. The name says that the noble science, advocate civilization. Even the sensitive topics that women think can also tear off the skin, talk about it, as the words of the pearl, the sound of the ground. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product.
The third station of men’s emotions: extra-marital affairs
It is true that talk is talk, performance is performance. Whenever men are faced with feelings of extramarital affairs, there are no more than two situations.
One, as described by a female writer: “Men are dogs, based on the structure is different, throughout their lives, go out to take a few piss, no need to make a fuss, anyway, he is still going home, or loyal, dogs are loyal.” This passage confirms the world’s evaluation of men: “like the new, not tired of the old.” Some people compare this kind of man’s relationship to a “burrito” that can be divided into several pieces and fall in love with several women at the same time.
Two, the man is purely lustful, in the face of different styles, different temperament, different appearance of the desired women, always in a different way, different performance reveal envy, a kind of “eating the bowl and looking at the bowl”. A kind of “eating bowl looking at the pot” greed. To be honest, most men only stay in the stage of “lust”, but not become “wolf”, to the women around the “respectful as a guest”, “as if away”. The “as if” state and a certain distance, will not easily offend her, possession of her. For this kind of “talk but not do” men, if asked why he likes to appreciate the “beautiful women”? He will be beautiful name: “to keep the mind young.” It seems that the beauty of women has an additional value. For most men, there is no “use value,” there is “appreciation value.”……
But knowing what men want, what can you do?
In fact, about everything changes, and the most important thing is not to lose yourself ……