Here we cite the four most likely dilemmas women encounter when breaking up, a sort of counterfactual, in the hope that all girls will learn a lesson and take the road less traveled.
The first sin: gullibility
Case in point: his vows are too real
Ruth is a gentle and pretty university lecturer, and her boyfriend, Zichu, is a teenage famous writer.
Together, they were the envy of everyone. But after six months of dating, Ruth felt increasingly despondent. The company’s main focus was on the development of a new product that would be a new product. One time, Ruth had a sudden appendicitis in the middle of the night and called Zichu, wanting him to take her to the hospital. But the drunken Zichu shouted into the phone, “Drink, come on, let’s drink again!” When she was discharged from the hospital, Ruth asked Zichu to break up with her. But Zichu refused and swore, “As long as you don’t leave me, I’ll change everything for you!” To show his determination, he even posted a letter of assurance on his blog.
Ruth believed it, and the two got back together. It was fine at first, but before long, Zichu was back to his old ways. The two of them were ready to leave again, and Zichu tried to keep …… them apart several times, breaking Ruth’s heart.
Analysis: It’s easy to change your nature
Many of his bad habits have become relationship killers that you can’t stand. And what do you do when you propose a breakup and he says he is willing to change for you? You must hold your ground. Now that you have decided to break up, don’t go back so easily. Men know that women will give up their principles and maintain the status quo without hesitation once their hearts are soft. At this time, he will actively self-transformation, into your mind the ideal object. However, you must not be blinded by flowers and lose your way. The change he made was only temporary. What you need to do is to stop having any illusions and let go cleanly.
The second sin: a soft heart
Case: His tears wet my heart
Zisu and Jiangjing both entered a university in Beijing from Wuhan, and their hometown relationship brought them closer to each other and they became boyfriend and girlfriend. After graduation, Jiang Jing went to graduate school and Zisu went back to work in Wuhan. As she matured, Zisu felt that her relationship with Jiang Jing was more of a friendship than a true love, so she sent him an email and took the initiative to break up. The company’s main business is to provide a platform for the development of a new business.
When Jiang Jing appeared in front of Zisu, it was time to go to work and she had to settle him down in her dormitory for a break.
After work, Zisu found Jiang Jing asleep on his bed, with a pile of empty beer bottles lying around. There was a letter on the desk, which read: I love you, please don’t leave me! The handwriting was blurry, as if it had been wet with tears.
When Jiang Jing woke up, he wrapped his arms around Zisu and murmured in her ear, “I love you so much, I could die for you. I don’t want to go to school, I want to stay with you.” His tears moistened Zisu’s pretty face and her heart, and the two reunited. But two years later, Jiang Jing said to Zisu that he refused to let go, not because of love, but because of unwillingness. Since there was no love, we had to be ordinary friends.
Analysis: Just give him a Kleenex
It used to be said that men don’t cry lightly, but now it’s the new century, and even Liu Tianwang is singing “Men, it’s not a sin to cry …… “The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Tears are really effective in touching the emotions of women. Seeing a man in tears, a woman’s potential mother nature is awakened. Maybe he does not want to break up just to save face, do not want to be abandoned by women, they will use tears to turn the tide. The right approach is: if you really decide not to go on with him, face his tears and just give him the Kleenex.
The third sin: regret
Case in point: unable to turn over in guilt and repentance
Ling Yue and Yan Feng were a loving couple.
The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
In this way, a pair of lovers turned into two enemies. The company’s main business is to promote the development of the company’s products and services. The more she thought about it, the more she regretted it, and felt that he wasn’t as bad as he said he was.
Trying to turn back, but the back roads have all been cut off by their own hands.
The more I think about it, the more I think it’s my fault that I broke up with Yanfeng.
Analysis: Judge your weight in his heart first
At the beginning of the breakup you will have a period of emotional turmoil and disturbed judgment, so you’d better not rush to get back together with him. You can find a place to calm down and let yourself think more about whether the idea of getting back together is really because of old feelings or because you’re not used to it. It is best not to have any contact with each other for a while. After all, even if you want to get back together, you must first know how much weight you have in his heart to do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The fourth sin: comparison
Case in point: there is no best, only better
After graduating from university, Yi Yi and many others joined hands in Shenzhen with sweet dreams. The company’s first major in the field of computer science, the company’s first major in the field of computer science, was the first to be awarded a translation job. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Even though they broke up, Yiyi still relied on many of them psychologically and was the first to think of them when they encountered problems in life. The first thing that happened was that she called him every day and paged him on twitter. The first thing that I did was to go along with Yiyi, but then I got a new girlfriend, and I was distant from her. But Yi Yi often sends him text messages, which makes many people embarrassed and his girlfriend unhappy. In fact, Yi Yi has also met many good men, but these people are richer than many, but they are not as gentle and considerate. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Analysis: Putting ex-lovers in a spiritual museum
Think about it, if you have to use your ex-boyfriend as a reference to find a husband, why did you let go of him so rashly in the first place? The most common mistake that women make is to use the advantages of their former lovers to PK the shortcomings of the person in front of them. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.