When you’re ready to have some fun, he says something that’s not good enough. 8 taboos in bed, don’t wait until it’s too late to realize how stupid you are.
Danger #1: After making out, he suddenly says, “Your belly is getting bigger and bigger, so you should lose weight.” And then he starts picking on your underwear for its outdated style or dull color, and he has a lot to say about your body and your looks.
Disruption strategy: This is a sign that something is starting to “blow up” in his mind.
The first thing you need to do is to get into his social circle and see the butterflies around him.
Risk 2, He said he had a cold and wanted to sleep in the den for fear of infecting you. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to improve the quality of its products. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Disposal strategy: Maybe he just read a magazine article advocating a new type of relationship and got a new idea. But you can say, “I’m used to sleeping with you,” and don’t make the mistake of taking the first step toward agreeing to him sleeping alone.
Danger #3: He used to like wearing baggy underwear, but now he’s suddenly sneaking off on his own to buy comfortable, tight Lycra trunks.
Strategy for eliminating the risk: When a man suddenly becomes sophisticated, especially about the quality of his underwear, his wife should be more attentive, and you should reflect on whether you have recently left him out of the loop because of work or other reasons. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Danger #4: Once in bed, he looks exhausted, whether talking to you or having sex, he’s too sketchy to even give you a hug.
Discomfort strategy: Recently he may be too tired, physically and psychologically stressed, and a little bored with sex. The thing you have to do at this point is tell him, “I know you’re too tired and give too much to this family.” “Just close your eyes and I’ll do some eye exercises for you.” No matter what’s on his mind, caring is a shortcut to bringing couples closer together.
Danger #5, He smokes or rolls out of bed immediately after sex, without looking at you, and goes straight to the bathroom to take a shower.
Strategy: When men do this, they don’t feel bad about it, but women feel like he has no respect for them, as if they are a condiment for him, tender and considerate when they need it, but turn around and leave when they don’t. You can do exactly this in response – help him pour a cup of coffee or juice and reward him for the effort he just put in.
Danger #6: He suddenly asks you to change to a new position to meet him, and you feel embarrassed about doing that.
Disposal strategy: Men like to experiment, and he probably got some kind of enlightenment from somewhere and wants to enjoy it with you. So, if your husband wants to explore a new way with you, you can ask him to discuss it with you first, and to spell out exactly how to do it beforehand so that you are prepared.
Close call #7, When you wake up in the morning, you try to give him a kiss and he drops away to avoid it.
Take a look around: If he wakes up in the morning with eye poo in the corner of his eyes and an unpleasant smell coming out of his mouth, and uses this unpleasant image to seek pleasure from you, will you turn your head away – both men and women are eager to have a fresh and sweet sex life every day. Perhaps being mindful of your image is the first step in keeping your passionate sex alive.
Risky situation 8, When you want to have sex with him, he acts like a wooden man, not understanding, causing you to waste your passion.
Strategy for de-escalation: When you want to have sex with him, body language is the best way to express it. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are looking for.