In our interactions with others, we all desire harmonious and enjoyable interpersonal relationships and dislike superficial and inauthentic “friendships” that are not based on real psychological interaction and emotional exchange between the two parties, but rather pseudo-friendships that take what we want or cater to the interests of others.
Social psychologists have found that people with unhealthy psychological states in interpersonal relationships are often unable to have harmonious, friendly, and trustworthy relationships, and are unable to be happy and satisfied with others, nor are they able to give useful help to others. In order to have harmonious and pleasant interpersonal relationships, social psychologists have summarized the following common unhealthy psychological states that women are invited to try to avoid in their interactions with others.
1. Inferiority complex
Some women have an inferiority complex in their interactions with others because of their appearance, body shape, and grooming, and are afraid to express their views, hesitate to do things, lack guts, and are accustomed to following voices without their own opinions. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Jealousy
Some people say that jealousy is a woman’s nature, especially in the process of dealing with people, and this is something women should pay extra attention to! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The most important thing is that you should be able to get the most out of your life.
3. Suspiciousness
The most taboo among friends is suspicion, suspecting others for no reason. Some people always suspect that others are bad-mouthing them, suspecting without reason that people have done something against them, catching wind of the situation, and lacking a minimum of trust in people. Such a person likes to make things right and wrong, and will make her friends feel that she is a troublemaker to avoid.
4. Selfishness
Some people always want to get along with others to get some benefits, either for someone else’s seat, or to get some benefits from others, or for a matter of request, if the other party does not have substantial help for themselves they are not willing to interact with each other. This selfish and self-serving mentality can easily hurt others, and once others recognize their true colors, they will firmly interrupt their interactions.
5. Game mentality
Lack of sincerity in interactions with others, treating others’ friendship as a child’s play, holding the attitude of playing with life, no matter who you are dealing with, there is no deep psychological communication, and you like to make superficial articles. When others need help, they tend to run away from the wind, and such people cannot make real friends.
6. Indifference
Self-appreciation, thinking that they are the best in the world, the phoenix in the sky, the best in the world, seeing interaction with others as a charity or favor to others. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
7. Stigma
Liberalism towards oneself, indulging in everything; Marxism-Leninism towards others, counting on everything and being extremely mean. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Such people, in human interaction is often easy to go to a dead end, and things and people calculating, friends will be less and less. The reason is that no one is ever wrong, do not know how to forgive, will not last long to have a friendship.