According to a survey, 39% of women break the taboo to cheat at least once, and women are in a surprisingly similar position to cheat. So even if you’re 100% sure, there’s no guarantee your she’ll have that one heart attack, and who says it’s just for men? So hurry up and read this is the serious thing.
Sign #1: She’s at the turning point of 25, 30, 35
Every 10th or 5th birthday turns out to be an unusual anniversary. Sometimes even men can’t help but lament about life, let alone women who see the passage of time as a great enemy. Women at this time usually ask themselves: “What have I done these 5 years? Who is this guy I’m with?” Experts say that women usually value life at this time, examine love and life, and if things don’t go as planned, she is likely to try to live the life she expects for once by having an affair. Surveys show that women whose marriages are not working out are three times more likely to have an affair around their birthdays than women normally do.
Your response: Be there for her and care for her. There are at least 2 nights a year when a woman wants a man by her side – New Year’s Eve and her birthday. By leaving her alone, you are giving her permission to have an affair, and in fact you are giving her reason to. Remember giving her one sweet sexual encounter is more of a bargain than anything else.
Sign #2: She gets a promotion and sits in a separate office
Maybe you don’t know much about this complex, so think about yourself. Women, like men, like to challenge themselves at work. But once the goal is achieved, you ask yourself: the goal is achieved, but what about this? This is how people are, once this goal is achieved, a woman will make the other important part of her life – relationships, as the next focus of effort. Experts say that women at the peak of their careers will feel invincible, and constant success will motivate them to acquire a more important part of their lives. Moreover, earning more will become bad, also applies to women. Women who make 10W a year are 1.5 times more likely to have extramarital sex than those who make 4W a year.
Your response: Celebrate her accomplishments and don’t become overly wary or jealous because of our analysis. And don’t be dismissive of your woman’s success, as most men in China are, instead you’ll want to gush about it with your buddies. If she feels that you are proud of her, she will feel as valued here as she does in the company, which means that she will not go back to others for solace and recognition, like the senior director.
Sign #3: She starts moving in and spending her days with you
Moving in together may have been her idea, but after all, it’s not as easy as you think. You know each other like the back of your hand; you start to feel as if you have nothing to say …… This is when she subconsciously thinks you are starting to get tired of her, and if there is someone else hanging around her at the moment, showing that she is popular and interesting and attractive, she will throw herself into the arms of that person. According to a survey, 41% of women who have an affair do so with their co-workers.
Your response: Understand that you are a lover, not a roommate. Don’t take her for granted as a wife, whether you’re married or not, don’t stop dating, don’t stop being romantic, and let him understand that you treat living with her as the important starting point of your relationship with each other, not chasing after her and calling it a day.
Sign #4: She guesses you’ve been cheating
Vengeful affairs are common, and women will use this as a way to regain their self-esteem. Quite simply, she wants to be fair. Of course she may not be hooking up on the outside, but what you do will make her disappointed and angry and less in control of herself. In many cases, a woman’s demand for fairness can overwhelm her inherent value system.
Your response: If you did cheat, come clean and apologize. But then again, maybe you didn’t cheat, and you can’t escape her paranoid suspicion of you because some women have low self-confidence and poor sense of security. No need to admit to yourself, what you can do is to keep acknowledging her and praising her, sincerely, constantly.
Sign #5: She’s not getting satisfaction in bed
As the relationship stabilizes and ages, maybe you’re not as active in bed isn’t as active as it was back then. But for her, she may want more, and she may take this as a sign that she is losing attraction and that you no longer love her. It’s not simply a physical need, but a psychological one: she wants to prove to others that she is still sexually attractive, which is a biological instinct to resist aging.
Your response: change things up. If she doesn’t want to have sex, find out why and fix it. If not, then you know what you have to do ……
Sign #6: She’s gone for it
Another reason that needs no introduction: she simply wants to end your relationship, and an affair is the easiest means to do so. There was a survey of 100 people who were asked, “What is the single most common way to end a relationship?” The most common answer was, “Start an affair.”
Your response: Let her go, it’s over, dude, you’re free.