They are able to endure loneliness and hardship so that they are not desperate for companionship, and even the broad shoulders have to be identified before they can be relied upon. Women are “left” but don’t forget to market themselves, and know that a woman’s femininity is an advantage to break out from the “leftovers”.
1. Elegant but not pretentious
What women make men afraid? The woman who is pretentious. What women are especially scary to men? The woman who is happy to be pretentious and elegant. The two concepts are easily confused. Briefly, the elegant woman not only likes to hold a highball glass floating in the cocktail party, she can also carry a can of beer in the seafood stalls. And for those ladies who don’t call it dinner without candlelight, I’m afraid there’s still “leftovers” to be had.
2. Confident without being egotistical
This is a subtle comfort. For example, if the car is about to pull into a highway toll booth, and his two hands are both gripping the steering wheel and busy lowering the windows, he will feel this comfort when the woman next to him thoughtfully hands over the right amount of change so he doesn’t get too frazzled. No one wants you to bend over backwards, but in his inconvenience to provide a little convenience. Men get married to get a tacit life partner. If it feels right to stand by and watch, then no problem, condescending solitude is a realm of its own.
3. Seductive but not pestering
Ever seen a circus show? Whether it’s a smart elephant or a goofy black bear, they all get a favorite piece of candy or a small treat after they finish the show. The trainer is pragmatic and understands that candy is more effective than a whip to keep these behemoths well-behaved and obedient. If endlessly driven, exhaustion in the second, bear temper up and may strike. The same goes for men, attraction always works better than prodding. Show more of your charm, less of his commitment, every day to pester him will only make him stress overload. If you think it’s better to pester for insurance, it doesn’t matter. The difference here is simply the word confidence.
4. Persistent but not paranoid
Waiting for a man who respects you as a person, who is responsible, who is not shabby in material things, who is not vulgar in cultivation, then this is the persistent “marry a good man”. Waiting for a man, he should be both rich and handsome, both romantic and dedicated, both wise and young …… then this is the paranoid “non-elite not married”. Does such a perfect man exist? Maybe it exists? But what makes him sure to marry you?
5. Learn to be strong
The prerequisite for attracting others is to adjust to yourself. The only way to be able to endure loneliness and hardship is not to eagerly seek companionship, and even broad shoulders have to be discerned before relying on them. A woman who is slightly depressed and seeks dependence and support is a good prey for a playboy.
6. Learn to bargain
When you’re “left”, you should stop fantasizing. The “leftover” women are facing men who are over 30 years old and “old fashioned”. So while flirting, don’t forget to talk terms!
7. Learn to wait
Which costs more, marrying the wrong person or not marrying at all? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Learn to be entertained
Be entertained, but not be entertained! The male companionship around you may make a potential good man misunderstand you as a woman, more likely to make you a leaf. A discreet and polite “GamePartner” who knows how to exercise restraint and manners, and who can give up his place in time, is even harder to find than a husband. If you’re not sure you want to be lonely, you need to be strong and find the right person.