Both online and in reality, most of those who complain about pain and unhappy marriages are women. This gives the illusion that women’s misfortune and suffering are caused by men, while men, even if they lose their love or marriage, do not suffer as much as women do, or even commit suicide.
It can be argued that thousands of years of development and evolution have made machismo quite prevalent, causing men to develop the ability to pretend that nothing is wrong on the surface, even if they are suffering to the point of death, even if their liver is broken, and not even dare to cry a little.
And one of my better online friends of the opposite sex, who is in the midst of marriage troubles, told me the other day that he is a man and can’t shed a tear. This is the only way to see how important face is to men!
However, not crying or complaining is not the same as a man not suffering, not the same as a woman not making a man miserable! The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
1, trying to change the man in every way possible.
A person’s habits, developed over 20 or even 30 years from the time he was born to the time he met his significant other, will not change for the sake of a lover who appears halfway. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem, and to help the company to improve its performance.
Even if he would make some changes for the sake of loving you, it would only be superficial and it wouldn’t take long for him to reveal his original form. And both men and women hate trying to change their significant others. Of course, a lot of people will say that women do not, women will be able to make the necessary sacrifices and pay for each other. This I admit, however, women change, but also some very good to change things, the real bones, absolutely can not be so easily changed!
What’s more, men want to save face, and the more you try to change him, the stronger his resistance will be. In other words, what you love is not the person he is, but the person he is after the change, so how can a man not be bitter for the rest of his life when he has a woman who has been doing everything she can to change herself?
2. There is no ego at all.
A bird-like woman is something a man would like. However, in today’s society, both men and women face extraordinarily stressful lives, especially today’s customs and traditions, which still favor the ironclad rule that a man has to buy a house when he gets married, and the pressure on men is even greater than on women.
The occasional bird’s-eye view is still very useful to men, but you are completely out of yourself, the whole one stick to the man, everything is waiting for the man to come up with ideas, waiting for the man to go to the point, a little bit of their own initiative is not, there is a little bit of fart to be confused, which man such a lifetime to serve you, not exhausted also have to die of suffering!
3. No principle bottom line.
In ancient times, a woman without her own principles and bottom line, even if a man did not love her, would still marry her and let her become a good wife and mother to help her “backyard”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And the inability to tolerate other women in their own homes is not a virtuous wife and mother. The first thing you need to do is to be a good wife and a good mother, and naturally you will be repudiated by the man back home. In those days, such a thing would have driven women to death! However, now we are in a society that requires a woman to have her own principles bottom line.
A woman without a bottom line of principles must be a woman who does not take her dignity seriously and will be a woman without a self, do you think a man living with such a woman for the rest of his life will be bitter?
4. Refuse to be real.
Although surviving in today’s society, you can’t fully expose your truest side. But in front of your own pillowman, you have to fake it and keep up your truest side for the other side to guess at. It can only mean that you do not love him, if you live together for the rest of your life, work hard all day, come home and still have to guess you like a riddle, but also have to be wary of keeping a certain distance from you at all times, is not that exhausting?
5. Like “self-abuse”.
There is a kind of woman, a little aggravated, will not eat or drink, or make a fuss, or else is not wash your face lying in bed all day, sulking their own anger to go! If you coax her, she will be angry and say, “Don’t pay attention to me, I’m tired of it! If you don’t care about her, she will say, “You don’t care about her anymore, you don’t love her anymore!
There are also those who are aggrieved or not happy in their marital life, and they do not hesitate to burn their wrists and other parts of their bodies with cigarettes, drink alcohol and talk nonsense, and bend their tongues. What’s more, they run away from home or commit suicide. The wife of one of the four kings, Leon Lai, is a typical “self-mutilator”, such a woman, you may fall in love, but will also drag you to death!
6. You can’t get rid of your parents’ control.
I met an emotional counselor last night, and from what she said, I could see that one of the reasons for her unhappy marriage was that the man was too much at the mercy of his parents, who said whatever they wanted, even when they got married and bought wedding supplies. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
How can such a man give a woman a happy married life? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Even if you don’t live with your parents-in-law, such strong parents-in-law will control your daughter and son-in-law’s life anytime and anywhere.