Who really makes a marriage tired?
What is the best way to treat this “difficult problem”?
Tired, rest and go again
Little things like mother-in-laws are the catalysts for marital exhaustion. For example, my wife and I are arguing over whether to go to my parents’ house or to her mother’s house this November. Marriage is a cup of tea, each has its own way of making, each has its own way of drinking. The heat is certainly good, but also tea will be cold people lonely, to maintain a normal state of mind is good. If you want romance and surprise, you will definitely have a problem. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Staying the same creates fatigue
“After 20 years of sleeping in the same bed, it is inevitable that there will be some aesthetic fatigue.” This is the classic line from the movie “Cell Phone”, from which I also learned that marriage turns out to be fatiguing as well. Marriage puts two people who love each other, bundled together, wear each other out, and finally the love wears off and everything becomes bland and tasteless. Middle-aged couples on some special days, learn to use their own special way to remember, to nostalgia, so that each other feel the temperature in each other’s hands. It only takes a moment of romance each day to keep the love alive in a humdrum life.
Leave a little more room for each other
Marriage is like sand in your hands; the tighter you hold it, the faster it leaks. Women are too much in charge and will leave men breathless. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If a woman is magnanimous, she will certainly make the man incredibly grateful, and ultimately happiness is in her hands. The secret to getting along as a couple is also to be able to open up to each other, even if you don’t agree with each other’s views, at least to understand what the other person is thinking. Marriage cannot be maintained by passion alone. After the passion period, you have to learn to adapt to each other and to life after marriage so that you will feel less marriage fatigue.
Indifference and suspicion make couples go further and further apart
Happy marriages are all the same, unfortunate ones have their own misfortunes. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I have a lot of couples around each other indifferent, lack of tolerance, trust, encouragement and appreciation, intentionally or unintentionally ignore the existence of the home and the other party, and eventually lead to the two sides grow tired of each other over time. It is very important for a marriage to have a common purpose and lifestyle.
A tired marriage lacks sugar and salt
At the beginning of marriage it is because of love, but over time it is a responsibility. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. Many women are dedicated to raising their children, and are dedicated to being mothers and wives; many men also take seriously the responsibility of being the head of the family. But couples get along for a long time, are not willing to spend effort to create surprises and romance, every day is like plain water, inadvertently washed down the once strong love, such a marriage can not be tired? Marriage does not need daily surprises, daily romance, but men always have to let women feel they are cared for. The woman should also be good at managing her feelings, no man is willing to be lonely, dead in a pool of stagnant marriage.
Location separation dilutes feelings
My husband and I live apart, and we rarely see each other for half a year. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Like me, many of my friends have no time to spare from their busy work and household chores.
If you want to get rid of the fatigue of marriage, women may want to treat themselves better and nourish their relationship with “women for their own good” to keep their marriage fresh.
The relationship is tired by life
The seven-year itch is not the only thing to blame for the marriage getting tired. The company’s main focus is on the business, and I’m tired of trying to keep up with the heavy workload while taking care of the kids. Recently, I realized that we had neglected each other’s emotional needs and wanted to make an effort to create surprises. Last month, I purposely spent 600 yuan on a Korean curl to try to get my husband’s attention, but he ignored me. When I asked him to give me some advice, he criticized me for spending money that was wasted, saying that it was enough for us to eat for a month. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The focus of my life revolves around my child
Since I gave birth to my daughter, the focus of my life has shifted from my husband to her. I’ve been working on a lot of things since I had my daughter, and I’ve been working with her on piano practice and tutoring her every day. Day after day, year after year, the marriage is no more color, no more flowers, only bland, irritable and boring. In fact, my husband and I have a very good emotional foundation, the same class, and in love for 6 years, my husband has always been loving to me. Although my heart has been looking forward to the perpetuation of romance, but over time had to face the reality of the trivial, such as children, household chores, financial management and other issues, in front of the reality of marriage is only trapped and lost.