Frequently, women ask what conditions a man should meet to be considered perfect as a husband.
The answer is: there is no perfection in this world, women can’t be perfect, and men can’t be perfect, as long as women who know a little bit about men will understand that almost all men are unevolved and inferior, they are either lazy and snobbish, selfish and arrogant, horny and love to eat, or sloppy and careless ……
So there is no need to say what the perfect husband, marriage is how thoughtful things ah, women are such complex animals ah, he can cooperate with you to spend the day grinding, can coax you within 48 hours after a quarrel, it is basically still a passable husband.
This may be a bit cruel to say, but the sooner women figure out these things, the better.
After all, the “perfection” of a husband is not a standard that can be set in a “conformist” frame.
A man who has the following four conditions (of course he must love you and be responsible) can be estimated and seen as the “perfect” husband who cannot be perfect.
One of them is bold;
A man should be bold, bold to have the courage to show the masculinity, a timid as a mouse, coy man may not even count as a real man, what to do a good husband. I admit that this statement is a bit radical, there are those who like small men, but I believe that my statement still meets the aesthetic standards of most women.
Of course, as a husband, boldness is not for you to be bold enough to cheat on your wife, for you to be bold enough to rob a bank and break the law, but for you to be bold enough to remove the many obstacles to pursue her, to walk with her on moonless nights, to be bold enough to protect her and her family, to go out into the world, to build your own adequate aura and career …… In short, as a husband worthy of a woman’s dependence, it seems that it is better to be bold!
Two, careful;
Most of the time, boldness and carefulness are at odds with each other. Bold people are often not careful, while careful people always seem to be not bold enough. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
I know a careless man who doesn’t know when his wife is angry, who wants a little romance and warmth he can’t appreciate, who buys all the gifts for his wife, but only bets on the diamond ring she cares most about.
With the help of the newest and most recent addition to the list, the company has been able to provide its customers with a variety of new products and services. Just think, such a careless man, women want him what use? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Third, the hand diligent;
I used to use Liu Xiang’s hurdles to compare the man’s aggressiveness when chasing a woman, and also Yao Ming’s tallness to compare the man’s arrogance and weight after changing his heart, but in fact these are not terrible, because one is before love, and the other is after love is broken, as long as the mind is adjusted, the road is facing each side. However, there is another greatest horror, which is when a woman gets married only to find out that the man is so lazy.
Not to be alarmist, it is a terrible thing for a man to be lazy, and it means unbearable poverty, and the defeat and unprosperity of the family.
Most of the lazy men are the masters of domestic violence, most of them are fathers who cannot do their duty to their children, and they will try every possible way to take the whip to their families to squeeze out their lazy space, even at the expense of dignity for the contempt of women and children, laziness is a parasite that will drown a person with unimaginable reproductive capacity, which is also summarized by many realistic and tragic examples.
So, if you are a husband, you should be diligent, you should be able to run around for your family’s sustenance and happiness, even if it’s to help her buy a bunch of potatoes for the barbecue, you should willingly walk up 400 to 500 meters for her in the rain …… Maybe that’s barely enough to be considered a “perfect” husband. “
They’re all the same.
Fourth, stable feet.
Almost all marriages need one common element, and that is stability. Only with stability can you feel secure, think about happiness, and build happiness.
So the words “I’d rather sit on a BMW and cry than ride a bike and laugh” are all just jerks for a marriage.
The first and foremost responsibility of a husband is to maintain stability, stability overrides everything is the biggest political task of a family, the kind of full a Western food hungry a meal of thin rice days, which women can not live with you head.
So the “perfect” husband needs to be practical, to do everything to be able to master the fire, to know what can be done, what can not be done …… In short, at any time you have to put your feet to stand firm.