It is said that men are very aggressive because their freedom, discretion, activity, and interaction are compromised. It is important to take a “laissez-faire” approach to men.
Privacy
Many newlywed men complain to their buddies that the old days are gone! The “old days” meant free time to do whatever you wanted to do.
After a few years of marriage, men feel like they’ve become a “yo-yo” in their wives’ hands: if they run away a little, they’re pulled back by their wives’ strings.
Dynamic relaxation
Aside from sleep and necessary work, men always seem to like to move – playing ball, hiking and other outdoor sports, no doubt, and even at home, they want music. If you want a man to stay in peace and quiet, he will be bored to death.
Non-conformity
Come home and take off your shoes and fling them with your feet instead of putting them in the shoe closet; get up late in the morning without folding the covers; brush the dishes after they are used up; and the list goes on and on. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women with board rules only make men nervous.
Say what you have to say
“What can’t you just say?” Many men have voiced this complaint. Women love to express themselves in circles, and even the smartest men can’t keep up with women’s brains. Especially after the conflict, women take the “ignore” attitude – do not talk, do not talk on the phone, do not eat, different rooms and so on “cold violence”. In fact, men want to deal with problems between two people in a simple way.
Reluctance to manage money
If men spend as much as they earn when they are single, don’t expect them to change when they get married. They feel that personal finance is such a hassle that they might as well put the experience into a hobby. So men hand over the financial reins of their homes to women because they are too lazy to bother.