What do you think is the most hurtful thing a wife can say? What do husbands say that will make you angry? The day before yesterday, more than 10 couples braved the rain to attend a public service course on newlywed counseling at the marriage registry of the Haishu District Civil Affairs Bureau. They all just got their marriage licenses and tied the knot. On the one hand, they are still in the honeymoon romance period, and on the other hand, they have to start facing the reality of the pressure of the firewood and salt.
[Mock battle] From what to eat tonight to a family war
On the spot, the counselor asked the young couple, Xiao He (pseudonym) and Xiao Wu (pseudonym), to simulate a couple’s fight.
Husband: Honey, what’s for dinner tonight!
Wife: What to eat, I don’t know!
Wife: I don’t know what to eat, but where are my clothes?
Husband: Didn’t your mom take it to you to wash?
With the help of a woman, the clothes won’t be washed either.
Wife: Your clothes are flying all over the place, just like a pigsty.
Husband: You, you, you personal attack, you’re the pig, you can’t even wash your clothes.
Wife: My colleague’s husband, who doesn’t know how to wash clothes and cook. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Husband: You mean I’m useless, right?
They’re not going to be able to do that.
Wife: You’re poor, I don’t mind you. Your mother did that to me, and I didn’t say so!
Husband: What! None of my mom’s business! You said I was good, what’s the point of talking about my mom.
Wife: It’s impossible to get by, what’s wrong with talking about your mom. Say what’s wrong with your mom!
Husband: This is what I’m like, you follow me and suffer, you go find your rich guy!
[Interpreting the words of the quarrel] “Saying he is poor” makes the husband easily angry
When we watched the young couple simulate the quarrel scene in a colorful way, we laughed. It’s amazing how a young couple can go from discussing what to eat for dinner to arguing at the end.
Counselor Ling Zhang asked the newcomers: Which words do you think hurt the most when the couple argued? A man who got married after 866 days of love with his wife, Xiao Xie, said he couldn’t accept his wife’s rising of the two to his parents’ generation. Many other men say they can’t stand their wives saying he’s poor and that there are many people waiting! A man working in a government agency, Xiao Lu, feels that the two must create an atmosphere of grabbing and doing housework. Xiao Lu said, “I do my own brain work, usually to do more housework. This rests the brain, exercises the body, and also pleases the wife.”
Subsequently, in the reporter’s interview, many women said that the most unbearable thing in the quarrel is the husband said, “This is how I am, you follow me to suffer, you go find your rich man!” Xiao He said that her husband’s words like this are very sad. “Since I married you, I want the two of us to live a good life. I do have complaints or have nagging, I hope my husband will listen patiently.”