Recently, a marriage website and the National Population and Family Planning Commission Training and Exchange Center jointly released the “2012~2013 Chinese men and women’s view of marriage research report”, the survey by province and city came up with various data on marriage. The survey shows that men in Henan have the highest percentage of active payroll cards; women in Jiangxi have the highest percentage of active payroll cards.
Should all men turn in their salaries after marriage, and what is the situation in your home?
A.Women voice: why we want to control men’s wallets
1, men have money to “become bad” women
Economic power should be mastered, the heart of prevention is indispensable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Preventing men from spending money frivolously
Men often buy new, impractical digital devices because of their good looks, and friends always rush to pay for them when they are “ingrates”.
3. Money management is a necessity for women’s family
Women’s money management is more convenient for them to buy the necessities of life. The woman is in charge of the money so that the man can devote himself to his work.
4. It is better to manage money to honor parents
When a woman does not manage money, it will be difficult to help her mother’s family when they need help, and she will not be able to honor her parents properly.
5. Money is a source of security for women
With the task of raising the next generation, women have a strong need for security, and the economy is a source of security!
Two, men appeal for themselves: we also need money in our pockets
1, no money will be despised by friends
As a man, when it comes time to spend money but heroic short, hand in the pocket repeatedly fumbling, just can not pull out a few coins to. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to meet the needs of its customers.
2. It’s sad that you have to report to your parents to buy something
When you want to give your parents some gifts for the holidays, you have to report to your wife, but of course, your wife won’t say anything about it. That face is clearly a barometer. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
3. Give your hobby a way out
Bottlecap’s biggest dream is to search for all the strange books in the world, and for this dream, his home is becoming a museum, or to put it bluntly, a junkyard. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The bottle cap is actually very depressed, save some private money is for their own hobby, just like the wife likes to buy clothes, why she can not think differently, let their hobby a way to live?
4. A little bit of money in hand can make the dream of earning big money
Now is the era of negative interest rates, I suggested my wife to use the money to buy fund stocks, but she felt that the risk is too big, in case of loss, how to do the old and young family? The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5, encounter “moonlight” women, men do not care about money can not
My girlfriend is a moonlight family, buy shoes and clothes generously, is a save money useless theory of adherents, but later to get married to money, buy a house to money, do not save money how to do, I had to put the I had to save a third of our income secretly. I asked her to buy herself an insurance policy, she said that the thing to buy useless, no sense of insurance, as a responsible man, how can stand idly by? Surely I need to have money on hand to make amends?
6. Need money to surprise my wife
In fact, I secretly saved money to give my wife a surprise for her birthday and take her on a vacation to Hainan. If you tell her beforehand, and then let her take the money out to book a flight, how meaningless it is. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, should a man’s salary be handed over or not?
Traditional: The woman in control
Surveys have found that women are intuitive when it comes to making major spending decisions, but women’s intuition is often more correct than men’s reasoning.
For families:
1. Couples trust each other fully and support each other’s decisions unconditionally.
2. One partner is uninterested in managing money and has a low financial IQ, while the other is happy to manage the books.
3. Both partners have similar consumer attitudes and should be rational consumer types.
Pros and cons: These couples are basically close and trusting, and having the money in one person’s hands is better for efficient use of family assets. The only downside is that in case the marriage breaks up, the one who doesn’t care about the money may be at a disadvantage.
Type AA: Couples are “collaborators”
The AA approach to money management, while trendy (facebook), can feel like “collaborators” at some point.
The AA approach to money management, while trendy (facebook), can at times feel like a “collaborator” rather than a “family”.
For families:
1. Both spouses make a lot of money and have equal incomes.
2. Both spouses prefer AA, and as long as one of them is against it, it cannot be implemented.
3. Having AA is suitable for Dinky families because it is difficult to split the expenses of children in two.
Pros and cons: The advantage is that you can retain your full self after marriage and avoid many conflicts. But AA money management may be detrimental to the intimacy of the couple’s relationship, especially for those who think more traditionally, and can lead to estrangement.
Compromise: Private money also has a positive effect
Disagreeing with AA can be a compromise. To get a new TV or new digital, sit down and discuss who likes it better and who pays more.
For families:
1. Both spouses have some idea of how to manage money, and neither is a financial idiot.
2. One spouse is willing to give up more of his or her “financial power.
3. The couple disagrees on the family finances, but can eventually agree.
Pros and cons: A compromise approach to money management can take into account both the couple’s feelings of intimacy and the need for space for each of them.
The couple’s financial situation can be more problematic than AA if they don’t communicate well.