30 years old, the youngest years have passed, want to live happier days in the future, 7 things you must wake up to.
1. Let’s talk about love first
I saw some stories about houses, money, and always feel strange, why people can put their love on material things, real love is not demanding material things, like our first love in school, 50 cents of stinky tofu, 2.5 yuan of fried rice with eggs, because we have love in our hearts, only then will we The first time I saw it, I thought it was a good idea.
Nowadays, girls demand too much from men, although men have to provide for their families, men are the backbone of their homes, he can provide for you, there is no need for you to do begging, you can live more like you with him, more free, more lovely, more comfortable, this is happiness, in fact, there is a big component is a psychological factor, and you live in a big house, drive what car basically has nothing to do.
2, said the relationship with men
How to keep it fresh, I’m young now and have little experience, but I’ve been in love with my boyfriend for 8 years, living together for 3 years (didn’t want to get married, planning to get married at 29), I used to be afraid, how to keep a man’s eyes on you, how to make a man love you as much as he did when he was hot, now I think I understand, I don’t know if the big brothers and sisters here will agree, in fact, let him go, you yourself also find more meaningful, can enrich their lives things, you will find that the people who love you no matter how busy, how late back, still love you like that.
You don’t need to be anxious to know where he went and who he was with every day, because you have your own things to do, when he comes back at 8:00, you are still working out, when he comes back at 10:00, you are still in the bath, you have time to care so much ah, you want to make yourself live happy, comfortable, like a little fairy, the man came back, feel the warmth of home, there will be easy to go to other homes < strong>Women there. Women There it is your femininity that attracts him, not the other way around.
3, self-improvement is very important
Now more and more women can share the cost of the home with men, that is very good, but I think it is good to do your own work or 60% of the good, the home is 70% of the whole fresh, 80-90% of the good is to pay attention to the work of men and their interests, there is an opportunity to ask for advice like men about his The most important thing is that you can get into his heart, you can be friends with him, he likes to share his happiness with you, and I think this is what those little girls should focus on learning.
A man who takes care of you all his life is very hard, do not always think that you like to watch soap operas, men should always accommodate you, other you can try him to watch 50% of soccer, you watch 50% of soap operas, you will find other you have been occupying the TV odds are much greater than his, so let let him very should, go shopping yourself, maybe you can convince him to pay for you ah, because He is so happy that you let him, huh, this is said to be modest and caring.
4. Sex
Every couple has different contradictions, men like it fast, women come slow, so has the person you love heard yourself say you like it slow?
No matter how difficult the problem is, communication is most important.
5, introspection is very important
People have flaws, nowadays men and women have problems like to find problems in other people, in fact, for marriage, experience and reasoning is to find out for yourself, just like learning and working the same reasoning, do not want to work hard to get a high salary is impossible, do not want to be happy and do not continue to summarize The lesson that you will die a horrible death.
We all know that love and marriage are two different things, learn it well, that’s what I came to the siege for, to think in peace, save for a rainy day, stay beautiful and competitive, I think if you do, now that men don’t like you, you can still have your choice without being miserable.
6. Ask men for more stages
Men like to offer women what they can and help them. For example, when he has 20W, you can tell him you want a diamond ring, I think he will be happy to agree, but don’t ask for too much.
He can’t afford to buy a house, so you can ask to rent a better house, and then you live comfortably. I think the reason why men are actually happy inside is because their beloved ones are happy, not to be used as a money-making machine.
7. Family
Of course, this issue is very complicated, I used to be 22 years old when I was foolish to quarrel with the BF to find his mother’s confession, now the principle is: do a good job next generation should do, too much, as if it did not happen, money or whatever do not count, really, the more you count, the more difficult to do, watch your own pocket can be.
If you’re not sure what you’re doing, you’re not sure how to do it.
Really, your boyfriend’s pocket let him go, it’s always smart to have a degree, can’t figure out the people, you can’t figure out with him, the worst plan, your boyfriend will work with his mother, so what people are 20, 30 years of feelings, you came out only a few days ah, you want others not to do filial piety does not make sense.
In fact, life is not clear at once, trivial, remember the saying: you first of all if you are yourself, only then is the wife, children, and so on ……, must ask yourself what your heart needs.