2013 has opened the first chapter of a new era, and the mother-in-law’s criteria for choosing a son-in-law has “kept pace with the times” by adding new regulations. The company’s newest product is a new product that will be available for purchase in the future.
Mothers-in-law are really on the road to making things difficult for their sons-in-law, and they’re not going to stop until they get you killed! The first thing you need to do is get married. It’s hard!
What are the reasons why mothers-in-law have high standards for choosing sons-in-law?
The 10 criteria for choosing a son-in-law, one by one, make the average young man’s heart drip with blood.
The 10 criteria for choosing a son-in-law have become a universal social phenomenon, with new “standards” being set year after year, why is that?
Choosing a son-in-law to prevent old age: If your daughter is not married well, you will lose both your money
The majority of families today are only children, and children are the pearl of their parents, and it takes a lot of effort to pull a child into success, not to mention a lot of money. The first time I saw a child, I had to go to college, and it cost me 400,000 to 500,000 yuan to raise a child. According to an analysis by experts at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, the total direct economic cost of a child between the ages of 0 and 16 is about 250,000 yuan, and if you count the cost of higher education, the direct cost of raising a child is already as high as 480,000 yuan.
Again, “Girls need to be raised rich, boys need to be raised poor,” and in many families, the effort and expense of raising a girl is even higher than that of raising a boy. Parents spend so much effort on their daughters, like creating a work of art from scratch, even if the work of art is not their own, they must find a better next home to be willing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Furthermore, along with this behavior of having a “fine” child, most of them also put the rest of their lives on their daughters and future sons-in-law. The higher the standard, the better.
Experience says that material abundance is a must for a daughter’s “happiness”
While not all families raise their daughters as “works of art,” the vast majority of parents do their best to find a son-in-law.
While not all families raise their daughters as works of art, the vast majority of parents try to earn a rich marriage for their daughters when choosing a son-in-law. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The fact that prices are soaring in recent years makes it even more important to choose a good bread for your daughter.
Daughter is a money loser, take advantage of the marriage to earn a handful
Although parents are altruistic, the world is a big place and there is no shortage of strange things to do, so you can’t rule out the possibility that there are also profit-minded mothers-in-law who are looking for a “rich man” for their daughters to earn a handful. So turn into a “king mother”, stick to beat the poor lovebirds without weakness. They have set high standards for choosing a son-in-law, just like selling goods at a price, and how much money they have to sell.
The average young person is under a lot of pressure: it’s hard to meet the standards!
The mothers-in-law on the other side of the room are listing their “son-in-law criteria” in the sky, while the average young man on the other side of the room is in a tizzy. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A survey shows that only 200 people have a stable job with an annual income of more than 100,000, only nine percent have a house with more than three rooms, only six percent have a car of not less than 100,000, only eight percent go back to their mothers’ home for the New Year holidays, only 400 people can take their wives on a trip once a year, only 209 people have a grand wedding, only 300 people guarantee baby nutrition and a famous school. 300 people, 10.77% of the monthly salary turned in ……
From the above data, it is clear that the number of people who meet one of the criteria is relatively small, let alone each of them. Even the traditional mother-in-law’s favorite “civil servant” son-in-law may not be able to meet all the requirements at the same time.
According to the latest National Bureau of Statistics data, the average annual salary of civil servants is 33,869 yuan, including basic salary, subsidies, bonuses, and various allowances, and the annual income does not exceed 100,000 yuan. In accordance with such a salary calculation, save enough to 1 million is simply far away. Even if civil servants have gray income, you can take shortcuts to make money, it is not, because it does not meet the “integrity” one. The 10 criteria are so powerful that even the mother-in-law’s beloved son-in-law “civil servant” is also killed, not to mention the ordinary male youth!
Netizen’s comment
[Case Study] ok girl: I also have a female friend whose mother is probably the same as this mother-in-law, asking how much money the other party gives before allowing her daughter to marry. I watched my female friend take two drags because of her mother and broke up… Ugh. The second family is still a bit of money that the man said is not a one-time payment after no involvement, but then it did not end, also divided, feelings are dead in the hands of money.
[The tooth for a tooth faction] Qujing Path: the requirements of the son-in-law is so harsh, then their daughters and what is the goods? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
[Chicken Soup for the Soul] MENGMENG: These criteria are generally for married men, so mothers-in-law should stop thinking about unrealistic things there! Incredible, impatient Chinese mothers.
[The faction] Liu Qi: I think there are 3 things that are necessary: having a suite, loving your wife, being faithful to your wife, and the other conditions are better if you have them, but it doesn’t matter if you don’t. Young people can just create their own.
[Legendary Novelist] Yang Bin: Chinese mothers-in-law have created more Liang Zhu! May those Liang Zhu be able to have lovers who will finally be married! Such sons-in-law are born exclusively for mothers-in-law, so it’s really hard to find them!
[Emotional Editorial] Liu Xinyu: Compared to the Fujian tycoon who married his daughter with a dowry of over 100 million dollars, it seems that the saying “people are poor and short of will” really came true. The company’s own inability to create a happy foundation for their daughter has put her on the “shelf” at a critical moment. The fundamental law of the union of men and women is that “the door is right”, regardless of their own cultivation, natural and material conditions on the whole will be placed on the scales of the hearts of both sides, if not equal “Qi Tian Da Sheng” will pop out from the stone like mind.
Mother-in-law don’t be belligerent!
The word “mother-in-law” has been on fire these past few years, and a common name has somehow become synonymous with “the Buddha of victory. “
The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, the “new” product.
The mother-in-law who has a “marriage license” is normal to consider the material conditions of the man, the need for a house is normal, and it is also normal to firmly oppose your daughter’s naked marriage, in this era of skyrocketing prices and flying triads, it is always right to use your years of life experience to keep an eye out for your daughter. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Mothers-in-law need not only to be “ideal” but also “sensible” when it comes to their daughters’ life events. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.