If you think you can stabilize your relationship by having your parents meet early, you’re mistaken. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the company’s customers to meet and learn from each other.
I. Don’t get into the habit of giving gifts
Giving gifts on holidays is a thoughtful thing to do, but if you’re not married, don’t get into the habit of giving gifts to your future in-laws all the time. Just think, it is hard to go back after buying once, and it will look rude if you don’t buy the next time you see your parents. And your significant other will be thinking the same thing, if you send him not to send, or if you do not send him to send, once the eccentricities of one of the parents, it will be a big problem! It’s a good idea to send it on the most important day, even if it’s a gift!
2. Don’t give 101% care too early
Marriage is often the important line. If you take the initiative to cook, do laundry, do housework and other things for each other before marriage, the other parent may feel that you care a lot about his son, but you may be more like a parent than a girlfriend to the guy. It is important to remember that the girl’s reserve is very important, too early by the other side as “into the kitchen, out of the hall” although it is good, but early to become a good housewife in the eyes of others, the results are counterproductive. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
3. Don’t spend the night in each other’s homes
“It’s better to be known than seen.” The first thing you need to do is to have a good time.
4. Don’t talk about your family’s wealth
Many people are very generous or full of big-headedness and will talk about it when they meet someone who is chatty, but remember not to talk too much about your family with the other family when you meet the parents. When the relationship between two people becomes a relationship between two families, it will be very involved, and if you have to give a clear account of everything, it may become endless. I’ve heard of a woman’s parents being unhappy with the amount of money the man ordered before the wedding after they knew the man was from a prestigious family and had a wealthy family, so they made a scene. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Don’t let your in-laws meet too early
If you think you can stabilize your relationship with your parents by meeting them early, you’re wrong. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
6. Don’t lend money generously
If you decide that the other person is the right person and you decide to go on together, you’re in for a long ride. When you agree to lend money, the same thing will follow later! This time it’s a brother-in-law, next time it’s an aunt, this one has no money for college, that one wants to sponsor hundreds of thousands, if you give a little less, and will cause dissatisfaction. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Seventh, stick to the principles
Before you become a couple, pay more attention to the other parent’s words and behavior. There are times when they may be unreasonable or not polite enough to you and your family, and some will hold their tongue, thinking not to hurt the peace. But you have to remember that you can’t just avoid holding back, and when it’s time to strike, it’s time to strike, and we need to just be polite and courteous ourselves.
Eight, girls should not powder too thick
See the parents of the makeup should be fresh, elegant, nude makeup will be more attractive parents like. If the heavy makeup, may leave a bad impression in the hearts of parents, for example, exaggerated smoky makeup can bring the effect of big eyes, but the dark circle of color makes you look like a nightclub girl. Some girls like to bring false eyelashes, eyelashes are longer and thicker, but they look thicker, like a fan, and parents who don’t know how to apply makeup may also find it scary.
9. Boys should not dress casually
The first impression brought about by clothing is very important, and a momentary impression can affect how others view you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Ten, don’t be lazy! Ask more about parental favorites
While it’s important not to go overboard with meet-and-greet gifts, don’t just ignore them before you meet the parents. Remember to ask your partner about the other parent’s background, preferences, occupation and taboos beforehand. The first thing you need to do is to read the news so that you don’t seem ignorant. If your partner’s family loves food, even if you never cook, take the time to learn how to cook a simple dish or two; if you don’t usually play mahjong, practice it so you don’t look awkward when the time comes.
The first impression of meeting parents is very important, so pay attention to your dress and words, learn about the other parent’s preferences before you meet them, and just be generous and not overbearing. The last advice is to keep two seconds distance from the other parent, the first second to think clearly, the second second to discuss everything with your partner and let your partner stand up for you, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the best.