Turning to the Spring Festival, for the “fear of returning” in the leftover men and women, nothing is more fearful than to go home by the three aunts and six mothers arranged a match after match. Recent surveys have shown that “Have you got a date?” has become the most annoying Spring Festival greeting. So, as a “homophobic” you, how to deal with this rush like a blind date? The most important thing is that you have to be able to get rid of the “leftovers” in the matchmaking process.
Improve your male skills, refine your eyes
Although it is possible to cultivate feelings, mutual understanding needs time to communicate, but some men are not worth your time to understand, some men are worth your initiative to strike.
One, to have some phase, some not
Not every blind date must go, not once someone proposes a marriage, regardless of the conditions of the other party to run to the blind date, that is not only a waste of their time and energy, but also meaningless. The matchmaking should be selective and selective. Before a blind date, learn as much information as possible about the other party from the introducer, the more the better, especially if you are interested in the aspects that have requirements. This will make it clear to yourself how far away from your bottom line this person is and whether you can accept them, and if you can’t, you can probably turn down the blind date.
Two, such a man is not worth wasting time
The bill always comes out big
Unless he is a rich kid born with golden keys, if every time he pays he is bashful to shoot out hundred dollar bills, and the change he gets back is never looked at, directly The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Not cutting your nails before a blind date
By looking at a man’s nails, you can see how hygienic he usually is. Men who are hygienic usually pay close attention to details and tend not to neglect their nails. In addition, nose hairs, ear eyes, etc., the hygiene of these areas can also show the usual level of tidiness.
The attitude towards the waiter is either too bad or too good
During the process of dating, after ordering in a restaurant, the food is late and immediately calls out the waiter, claiming to complain at every turn, such a man needs to be careful and wary, because it is likely that he will have a tendency to do domestic violence when he argues with you. If the waiter in front of the lofty, show off the rich, such a man, may be very obsessed with power. No man like this is worth your time on a blind date.
Three, such a man, when it’s time to strike
He has the right strengths for you
Choosing a man is not about how many flaws he has, or how many strengths he has, but about which of his strengths is right for you. For example, you like to be faithful, he happens to not like to go out and have fun and not be a womanizer; you like to spend money, he happens to be able to earn you money; you like romance, he happens to be very affectionate …… As long as the advantages he has can meet your main needs and the other aspects do not offend your bottom line, then take the initiative.
He has the drive to be positive and come out of his low period
Usually around 28 is the low point in a man’s life, so you can’t judge his life by his income or property at 28. You can find out if he has an enterprising heart by simply chatting about his career schedule and what he does when he’s at his low point. If he can plan his time to study or look around for new opportunities, such a man, too, is worth having.
He pays attention to details
A man is an animal that doesn’t pay attention to details, and observing a man’s details reveals not only his flaws but also his strengths. The man who pays attention to details will not argue with you about the smallest things and will coax you after being complained about; the man who pays attention to details not only pays attention to being a man, but also pays attention to his personal hygiene condition. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dating Tips
Know what you want
To have a clear understanding of yourself, not only what level your condition is at, but also what kind of man you want and understand your own criteria for choosing a spouse. If some aspects of the other person are beyond your bottom line, then there is no need to waste too much time on him.
Tidy clothes and elegant conversation
People like pretty things, and first impressions are important. And a smile is important on a blind date, a gentle smile, a smile where the mouth doesn’t have to be closed or covered with a hand, which is a sign of politeness.
Don’t talk too much
First dates can be exciting, and the conversation can go on and on, but this can leave the impression that the other person is “full of crap”. The first date should give the other person a chance to talk at the right time, so that they not only respect each other, but also don’t think you’re too noisy.
Be careful what you eat
Many girls don’t pay attention to this. When eating, try to keep your mouth closed and never show the food being chewed, let alone make chewing noises. When girls order food, they should try to avoid some soup, garlic and too much onion.
Don’t kiss too early
In the first few dates, avoid kissing. Kissing too early tends to make the other person think you are a casual girl and thus gives them a bad impression.
The right way to look at AA guys
Many girls think that when a man and a woman are dating, it’s only right that the man pays the bills. But if the man proposes AA, it doesn’t mean that such a guy is unavailable. If you really like such a guy, why shoot him dead with a stick, how to pay the bill is just a small problem.
Thanks after the date
After the date, it’s important to thank the guy via text or email, both as a courtesy and as a way to get to know each other better.
Conclusion: The number of blind dates is nearly 100, and there are countless things that are not free from being “left”, but it is not that the conditions of the other party are too bad, or that the destiny has not arrived, but that you have lost the destiny yourself. In fact, dating can also find true love, the real destiny in your hands, as long as you adjust your mindset, clear what you want, bravely step out, you can find your own happiness.