There are many reasons why “sex is not on the menu”. For example, when people are in a bad mood, their sex drive tends to temporarily diminish. “Especially if the woman is tired but has to barely cope, it is very easy to have an aversion to sex, and over time may form sexual apathy or sexual aversion, etc.”
One, 11:00 a.m. is not a good time
A survey of women found that for most wives, their husbands’ delay in going to bed, or their offer to “make love” when she is sleepy, can cause strong resentment. strong resentment. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Surveys show that 46% of women say that they occasionally reject their husbands’ sexual needs simply because “it’s not the right time”.
There are many reasons why “sex isn’t in the cards”. For example, when people are in a bad mood, their sex drive tends to temporarily diminish. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. “Especially if the woman is tired but has to barely cope, it is very easy to have an aversion to sex, and over time it may form sexual apathy or sexual aversion, etc.”
To solve such sexual incoherence, on the one hand, the wife should take the initiative to communicate with her husband about her tiredness, and also directly tell each other “if you go to bed earlier, I think we will have more than enough time to linger. On the other hand, you can schedule sex on a weekend when you’re not busy and spare your wife’s worries.
2. It is not advisable to have intercourse when you are too full
After eating, the stomach and intestines need energy to digest and absorb food, so the supply of blood in the stomach and intestines increases, and the supply of blood to the rest of the body decreases accordingly, which can affect the male erection and the ability to feel sex normally. In addition, if a lot of alcohol is consumed during a meal, most women and some men will experience a decrease in libido, which is also not conducive to having sex.
Oscar McHenry, an American sexual health expert, points out that for men, maintaining a firm, long-lasting erection during sex is extremely taxing and requires multiple organs to work together. Among them, testosterone is very important to arouse male sexual desire and help complete an erection. A greasy, unhealthy diet can greatly inhibit the production of testosterone. Especially the kind of formal Western meal with five main courses in a row, the amount of oil is staggering and could well be a sex killer.
But eating the right amount of carbohydrates before sex can help improve the quality of sex. It is a great way to get your energy back quickly and maintain a long-lasting erection. Therefore, you may want to eat some toasted bread or potatoes before sex. The actual fact is that you can have a lot of time to get a lot of money to spend on your own.
Experts suggest that Chinese people can choose foods that help boost their libido before sex, such as shrimp and sea cucumber. Black fungus, yam and other foods that strengthen the spleen and tonify the kidneys are also good choices. After eating, the body will be a little tired, at this time may affect the quality of sex. Therefore, it is recommended that it is best to enjoy fish and water with your partner about 1 1/2 hours after the meal.
Three, after drinking a lot of alcohol should not be over sex
If you drink a lot of alcohol during the meal, most women and some men will experience a decrease in sexual desire. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services that are designed to meet the needs of the market.
Alcohol damage to multiple organs such as the heart, liver, and nerves, coupled with a highly excited nervous system and extensive congestion of the sexual organs during sex, can exacerbate organ damage. In addition, alcohol can cause abnormal sperm development and affect the vitality and morphology of sperm, which is detrimental to fertility.
More importantly, having sex after a long period of drinking and eating not only reduces the success rate and satisfaction of sex, but may also frustrate the couple’s relationship and make the partner sexually bored.
Fourth, the great sadness and happiness is also not suitable for making out
Maintain a harmonious and happy sex life is very necessary, but a good and safe sex life is even more important. The body is stimulated strongly enough, there is often a rapid release of nerve impulses, muscle contraction and increased glandular secretion, etc., which is manifested as a rapid heartbeat, increased blood pressure, headache.
And sex itself is a process of nerve excitement stimulation. If you enjoy sex when you are already excited, especially for middle-aged and older men, I am afraid that it will further accelerate and increase heart rate and blood pressure, and may even exceed their body’s tolerance limit. The lighter the discomfort such as panic and dizziness, the more serious may cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular accidents, and even endanger life safety.
And modern medicine has proven that sympathetic hyperexcitation and adrenaline stimulation are important factors in the onset of diseases such as hypertension, coronary heart disease, and tachycardia. Therefore, regardless of the usual physical condition, it is best to avoid sex for safety reasons when middle-aged and older men are too emotionally excited.
As people reach middle age, they are at the peak of their careers, and many of them may encounter exciting things like promotions, raises, title advancements, and paper awards, all of which can put the body in a state of extreme arousal. At this time, it is more can not have sex, in addition, for the elderly, such as family tragedy, the loss of a large amount of property and other emotional moments, also not suitable for sex. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to help you achieve your goals.
Experts caution that middle-aged and older couples should recognize the negative effects of excitement on their sex lives and work to stabilize and calm themselves. Spouses also have an obligation to help each other by diverting and stabilizing their emotions through conversation and walking.
V. It is best not to have sex when holding urine
Clinical studies have found that in some older men with poor erectile function, holding urine appropriately can improve erectile function. This may be because urine filling has a stimulating effect on the bladder. However, in people with normal erectile function, it is not recommended and not necessary to deliberately hold urine. And holding it strongly may also have side effects.
The male external genitalia perform two functions, one is to discharge urine and the other is to discharge semen. The two functions are controlled by a valve that either opens to let urine out, or closes to let semen out. Normally, this outlet is only responsible for urine discharge and there is no contradiction, but when sexually excited, if there is urine in the bladder, there is the problem of which one to let go first. If you hold back urine for intercourse, the filled bladder compresses the blood-filled genital peripheral organs, predisposing you to prostate disease.
In addition, if you have a bowel movement during sex, it can be distracting and affect the quality of your sex life.
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Six, just after a hot shower should not immediately have sex
Some people feel that after a hot shower, relax, more conducive to sex. But experts say that after a hot bath, at least half an hour apart to enjoy sex.
The human body is an extremely sensitive physiological system that is very responsive to temperature. Even a subtle change of 0.1°C can cause an exponential change in various hormones in the body, and is more likely to cause the electrical frequency signals emitted by neuronal cells to be stronger and weaker at times.
In general, the skin’s sensitivity begins to decline when the temperature exceeds 33°C. Many people will experience flushing and a slight decrease in skin sensitivity. Many people will experience flushed skin and a slightly numb feeling. And we often talk about hot baths, mostly when the water temperature is 38°C-40°C. Try it with your hand, it’s slightly hot, which of course makes the sense of touch drop.
Experts suggest that a hot bath should be avoided before sex, a cool shower is fine, and a water temperature of about 35°C is appropriate. The warm bath can play a role in calming the nerves and reducing the cardiovascular burden, and is good for hypertension, neurasthenia, insomnia, and itchy skin. If you do want to take a hot bath, then it is recommended to have sex half an hour later so that the skin temperature can basically return to normal and the skin is not so moist, and there is no negative impact on libido.
Seven, when the surroundings are not private enough
Many couples experience the embarrassment of having their sex life interrupted, not only by noisy children, but also by friends visiting and phone calls. Although this is not so much as to cause organic damage, it can cast a shadow on the sexual psyche.
Sex is more of a psychological activity than a physical one. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
To prevent this embarrassment, it is best to choose the right time to have sex, such as when the child is not crying or when the child is not at home. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Of course, if you are interrupted by unexpected harassment, don’t be annoyed, but comfort each other; start over later if you can, or negotiate a time to continue if you are not in the mood.
The evening between 19:00 and 21:00 is the prime time for nighttime activities and a “good time” for sex. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Couples can get satisfaction from a complete and full foreplay and afterplay. The most expressive and ears are most receptive and satisfied with sweet talk from 17-19pm. If you feel emotionally detached from your partner, take advantage of this moment. When you arrive home from work, don’t rush to eat, but take your partner into your arms, whisper your thoughts in his/her ear, kiss passionately, and let your passion burn.
Most people are ready for bed at 21:00-23:00 pm. The later it is, the more tired you feel. The first thing you need to do is to have a good time, but the wife needs to “warm up” in advance to avoid the embarrassment of having to fully cooperate with her husband. The two of them can cuddle and talk after sex to make up for the short foreplay.