It’s not helpful to know that “relationship compulsions” are at the top of the list of the most common reasons for breaking up, including “too much control” and “too tight”. So check to see if you have any of the following potential OCD tendencies?
1. Checking in on each other once a day, concerned about each other’s whereabouts
Possible escalating symptoms: More than single-digit calls or texts every day. “What are you doing now?” “What time will you be back today?” …… is like spying on the other person, but you don’t feel good inside if you don’t have all their whereabouts.
No matter where you are, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, you reach out to each other as soon as you want (even if they might be in a meeting or sleeping). The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Some people continue to make those silent phone calls, or send blank texts, etc., even after a breakup.
2. When your lover doesn’t call you back right away, your heart is vaguely angry
Possible escalating symptom: Calling until he answers.
If you’re not sure what to do, you’ll have to make a big deal out of it, even if it’s not a big deal, whether or not you get a call at the end, whether or not the other person has a valid reason.
3. When a lover receives any phone call, he or she will ask, seemingly casually, who is calling?
Possible escalating symptoms: slowly developing into logging into the other person’s email and peeking at their phone call history, inbox or outbox. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If the other person is close to someone else (whether of the same or opposite sex), he or she will feel resentful and lost.
Although there is no evidence, there is always the suspicion that there is a third party, and there is a strong belief in one’s so-called “sixth sense”, even to the point of stalking the other person.
4. Asking to meet each other’s friends and colleagues
Possible escalating symptoms: Based on your impressions of those people, you gradually develop into interfering with each other’s friendships. For example, restricting the other person from continuing a relationship with someone you don’t like.
5. Like to write blogs and send photos to show their happiness
With a cell phone scarf, you update more frequently and send the link address to all your friends and family to follow and share
Possible escalating symptoms: This will become a “reporting fetish “
They’re not the only ones who’ve gotten up. … their actions in detail to the other person to hear by text message, even if the other person does not reply or happy. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
6. Read horoscopes and other divination websites every day and care about relationship fortunes
Possible escalation symptoms: You may be superstitious about all the analysis, such as the match between horoscopes and signs, small lucky items, etc. If the horoscope says that you will quarrel today, it is inevitable that you will psychologically suggest that you will quarrel any way. Later on, they even interfere with what lucky color the other person should wear and so on. The two of them have a problem with their relationship, and they are bound to analyze their counterparts with their horoscopes instead of examining themselves.