Some women who are daughters-in-law are afraid to listen to their mothers-in-law’s relentless “teachings”, giving orders from morning to night, and they have no place to complain about the pain in their hearts.
I’ve asked some of my girlfriends who don’t get along so well with their mothers-in-law, have you decided not to deal with your mother-in-law or talk to her anymore? The answer was a resounding “yes!” The answer is a resounding “yes!” Is it really true that enemies never meet?
To learn how to be a good daughter-in-law, first, you have to learn to listen.
Being a silent listener in front of your mother-in-law is the first and foremost key. Older people always talk a lot and always choose to chatter at dinner parties.
You can let her talk as much as she wants, and you can show your happiness when she does, so that she thinks you respect her words and are a “civilized” daughter-in-law.
Second, learn to laugh it off.
Usually it’s better to buy your mother-in-law some clothes or something to make her happy. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I was a little angry, but afterwards I kept quiet, smiled and put the clothes away, and said, “It’s okay!”
Third, learn not to say “no” to your mother-in-law at every turn.
Of course there will be disagreements and conflicts between your mother-in-law and you when it comes to parenting, but the most important thing is for your daughter-in-law to be able to control the scale.
If my mother-in-law likes to put very hot water in the baby’s bath, I don’t object right away and let her insist on it until the baby is so hot that she cries, then I tell her what the book says about the optimal temperature of bath water.
Fourth, learn to sweeten your mouth.
Teach your child to be polite to her mother-in-law by calling her out more often on weekdays when there is nothing to do. When your child accidentally hits your mother-in-law or bumps her foot with your bike, teach your child and grandmother to apologize immediately.
Fifth, be diligent in your hands and feet and not be a lazy daughter-in-law.
Although the family has hired a nanny to help with household chores, a daughter-in-law can’t be too lazy and must do what she can.
At the very least, you can’t sleep and do your personal hygiene; you can’t cut corners on your children’s education either, buy more books to teach them to read and memorize, and let them perform in front of your mother-in-law to make her feel that you are patient with them as a parent.
Sixth, you should praise your mother-in-law more often.
My mother-in-law is one of the strongest women in the village, and although she has not studied much, she speaks and acts in a very good manner. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.