Lee Ann won the gold medal again, and his wife Lin Huijia’s “discerning eye” was once again validated.
The first time I saw the film, I was able to get a good look at it.
On Broadway, there are only 200 roles per year, but 50,000 people are competing for these few roles.
But when I graduated from film school a few years later, I finally understood what my father had done. In the American film industry, it’s not easy for a Chinese with no background to make a name for himself! From 1983, I had to wait for more than 6 years, mostly helping the crew with equipment, editing assistants, and other chores. The most painful experience was once taking a script and running through more than 30 companies in two weeks, facing the blank stares and rejections of others over and over again.
This is the most painful experience of taking a script and having people say it’s okay, then changing it here and there, waiting for the investors’ opinions, and then changing it again after the opinions come out, and then waiting again, but eventually it sinks into the sea and there is no news.
At that time, I was almost 30 years old. The old saying goes, “Thirty is thirty. I can’t even make a living on my own, so what do I do? I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to do that. Fortunately, my wife gave me the most timely encouragement.
My wife was a college friend, but she studied biology, and after graduation she worked as a drug researcher at a small local research lab for a pitiful salary. At that time we already had our oldest son, Li Han, and in order to relieve the guilt inside, I did all the housework every day in addition to reading and watching movies at home and writing scripts, and was responsible for buying groceries and cooking with the kids and keeping the house clean. I remember when, after cooking dinner every evening, I was at the door with my son, telling him a story while waiting for “the heroic hunter mother to come home with her prey.”
This is a life that hurts a man’s self-esteem. The company’s main business is to provide a variety of services and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Then I went to community college, looked halfway around the world, and finally heartbreakingly enrolled in a computer class. In those days when life was overwhelming, it seemed that computers were the only thing that could give me a skill in the shortest amount of time. I was depressed for a few days, and my wife soon noticed my peculiarities, and she found the course schedule in my bag. That night, she didn’t talk to me all night.
The next day, before going to work, she was almost in the car when suddenly she stood at the bottom of the steps and turned around and told me, word for word, “Ann, remember the dream in your heart!”
At that moment, it was like a sudden wind in my heart, those dreams that were about to drown in the mediocrity of life, like the sunlight that morning, shot all the way into my heart.
The first thing I did was to take out my bag of course sheets and slowly tear them into pieces and throw them into the garbage can at the door.
Later, I got a sponsorship for my script from the foundation, started to pick up the camera myself, and then later, some of the films started winning awards internationally. It was at this time that my wife revisited the old story, and she told me, “I’ve always believed that it’s enough for people to have one strength, and your strength is making movies. There are so many people who study computer, and you are not the only one! You have to make sure you have a dream in your heart if you want to get that little gold medal at the Oscars.”
No matter how distant this dream once was, it is now partially realized after all. in April 1991, when my first official film, “Pusher,” funded by Taiwan’s Central Film Corporation, opened at Cudmacion Productions in New York, someone brought me a wooden box and said, “Director, you sit here.” No one noticed, but I was floating, and for the first time, someone officially called me “director”. I felt that my patience and my wife’s dedication had paid off, and at the same time made me even more determined to keep going on the road of film. I will always have a dream about film in my heart.
Analysis: The three virtuous wife traits of Ang Lee’s wife, Huijia Lin
1. Good at independent judgment: choose a man with pursuits, not just material conditions
In this impetuous era, look at the partner you want to choose clearly, and utilitarianism in choosing a mate has many disadvantages. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Maybe it is really a potential stock it? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Be tolerant of your partner: support your partner’s dreams, don’t hurt his dignity
When your partner’s career is not going well, support him to find his dreams, don’t pressure him because of all kinds of pressure, it will only have a negative effect. Good husbands are also encouraged.
3. Persistent and resilient: holding on when it’s hardest, not giving up impulsively
After seven years of simmering, Huijia Lin had her moments of despair and grief. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services, such as the Internet and the Internet. Then she dried her tears and continued to work hard to provide for her family and raise her children. Finally, she waited for the day when her husband broke out of his cocoon.
Netizens comment: Not utilitarian women can make men
@Large Lifebuoy – Sun Jing: In this era where the media is constantly instigating how women can be more pretentious, will plan their marriage choices and torment men in different ways, women should indeed reflect on this, don’t cry and feel that God is unfair to them, feel that they are excellent in every way but can’t meet a good man. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
@GoldenMistake:
: Wife is the biggest angel.
@IanWangHuan:: Most men’s success is only about making themselves; most women’s success is either about making themselves or about making men. So in comparison, women are greater.
@ANU_CAIS_LXY: Even the strongest, most powerful men have times when they feel the pressure and burden is heavy. This is the time to have that support from the depths of tenderness, real support, and that touch that I’m afraid is unmatched and irreplaceable by anything else. Those women who complain about men not loving them more and more, have you ever reflected on yourselves? Is there anything other than capricious and demanding?