In modern society, the shadow of an affair is lingering outside the doors of more and more families. Reports of affairs fill the pages of popular newspapers, and when you turn on the television and the Internet and other media, a variety of programs come on from time to time with the desperate cries of wives and the repressed whispers of girls who are third parties. While sympathizing with these women, people are not only curious about what men are looking for in an extramarital affair. Why are they so happy to take the risk and play this balancing game?
First, look for youth. It is often thought that only women care about their age because they are keen to cover up the signs of age through makeup, clothing, beauty and bodywork. In fact, men also care if they are still young, energetic and attractive, and these things are also a competitive capital for men. Only their desire for eternal youth, compared to women, to be much more secretive. Why the vast majority of men are looking for young and beautiful ladies as lovers? They are trying to prove through this thing that they are still attractive and not to be underestimated.
Second, look for status. Usually only those rich men can afford to find a lover, in the eyes of some people, the lover becomes a symbol of status, status, just like the villa, famous cars, brand-name clothing, beautiful lover seems to become a living advertisement for men with status. An ordinary employee of a joint venture, the income is not high, but since the lover, he found that even the manager seems to have a different look at himself. The man is far more socialized than the woman, and is more influenced by his environment and popular beliefs than the woman.
Third, find a flirt. Many men emphasize that they fall in love with their lover because she is softer, more beautiful, and more caring than their wife, meaning they are looking for the better woman. In fact, what men are looking for in a lover is a different temperament, style and style from their wives. They like their partners with a bit of mystery and seduction, while their wives are quite familiar with each other because they have lived together for a long time, and the lover meets their psychological needs.
Fourth, looking for sexual satisfaction. It is undeniable that sexual satisfaction is the biggest “gain” for men in extramarital affairs, and most extramarital affairs, in their essence, have the nature of sexual transactions. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
Fifth, looking for affection. There are some men who see their lovers as better marriage partners, but the percentage of this group is relatively small. Behind the life-and-death type of affair, there is mostly a rather complicated emotional background, and the percentage of such affairs that lead to divorce is quite high.