Sex is a normal physiological and psychological need, both men and women will have sexual requirements, and when women are sexually cold or sexually hungry, they are even more eager for sexual interest. Women need sex, thirsty for sexual interest, which is natural, reasonable, unquestionable, do not regard this as sexually frivolous, sexual slut. It is often said that the woman is a book. But this book is not very easy to read, especially in the sexual issues. These issues women are usually reluctant to reveal to men. Now, let’s uncover the sexual secrets of the women who may be confusing you.
There are sexual secrets in women’s inner worlds that can affect their relationships, and they are often reluctant to reveal them to men, who have to explore and navigate them on their own.
Sexual fantasies
In women’s minds, if the idol loses its image When beauty is lost, they tend to have sexual fantasies. The most peculiar thing a woman can do is to know and feel the man she wants to love by imagining a perfect blend of image and fantasy.
One of the differences between humans and animals in sexuality is the existence of sexual fantasies in human sexuality. Psychologists believe that as long as the sexual fantasy is not excessive, it is not a bad thing, but a little sexual fantasy will make sex more harmonious, more romantic and sexual interest. For women, their sexual fantasies tend to be romantic, like to fantasize about a Prince Charming-type lovers, in some full of romantic environment encounter, etc.. The young women’s fantasy objects are often sportsmen, movie stars or singers; and the middle-aged women’s fantasy objects are mostly their lovers and the people they love.
Moderate sexual fantasy is not a bad thing, but excessive sexual fantasy can affect the couple’s sex, or even lead to a breakup of the relationship. Therefore, as a wife once a sexual fantasy, may wish to tell her husband, let him know that the cause of sexual fantasy is the husband’s image is not beautiful. The first thing you should do is to try to establish an image of beauty in your wife’s heart in order to revive the heterosexual effect between the couple.
Sexual interest
Today, many husbands focus on making money and neglect sex. Busy work makes sex less energetic, and over time, it will make the wife sexually hungry. Because women often lack initiative in sex, so men often think that women lack sexual interest, in fact, this is a misunderstanding. Sexual life is a normal physiological and psychological needs, both men and women will have sexual requirements, and when women are sexually cold or sexual hunger, they are eager to sexual interest. Women need sex, thirsty for sexual interest, which is natural, reasonable and unquestionable, do not regard this as sexually frivolous, sexually lascivious.
Sex is shared by both husband and wife, regardless of which party has the obligation to cooperate with each other and the right to get sexual satisfaction from it. Therefore, when the wife needs sex, you may want to tell your husband, so that he can cooperate and get sexual satisfaction. However, if the husband is not energetic or poor health, the wife should also think about him, and try to restrain themselves, while taking the initiative to care for their husbands, never because their sexual needs are not met on the resentment, blame the husband, which will only bring shadows to the couple’s feelings. As a husband, even if the work is busy, we must leave some energy and time for love. Love needs time to consolidate, sexual harmony needs experience to accumulate. This is the point of leaving a little time and energy for sex, as contemporary sexologists have repeatedly called for.
So, what do women need for sexual interest? In fact, women of different ages tend to have different requirements for sexual interest. Generally speaking, women in their twenties pray for romantic sexual interest, talk about love, poetic; women in their thirties, with the maturity of love, they desire their husbands to share household chores, education of children and attention to family life; women in their forties, most of them want their husbands to have enough time for emotional communication; women after the age of fifty, focusing on love language, they desire to be with their husbands to reminisce about the past, the Southern and northern countries to talk about everything. For this, the husband should be good at observation, exploration, and timely give his wife sexual interest in order to meet their sexual requirements.
Sexual suspicion
For modern families, both spouses should give each other a spatial distance that allows for interpersonal relationships to flow, including normal interactions with the opposite sex. Such relationships include: interactions between colleagues, classmates, friends, etc. As long as they are for the cause, unity and friendship, as a wife need not think too much. If the wife is suspicious, jealousy will seem unnecessary. Of course, the wife’s thoughts can be in the appropriate occasion, take indirect or direct way to tell her husband, to obtain his sympathy and understanding, this sexual communication or emotional exchange, sexual harmony is very necessary. Otherwise, this misunderstanding or suspicion of psychological deeper and deeper, will certainly affect the couple’s sexual love and husband and wife feelings, often will also be false into reality leading to family break-up, this lesson has been seen time and again, as the wife should be cautioned.
As a husband, you should know that between the sexes, women are usually more jealous than men, suspicious and jealous, which is a weakness of the female sex. Conversely, this is also a strength of women. One of the greatest strengths of women lies in their devotion to love and selfishness. As the saying goes, “How deep is love, how much is hate.” Therefore, the man should pay attention to a certain scale in the interaction with the opposite sex, stay in proportion, not to go beyond the thunderbolt step, in case it hurts a loving wife.