No one is perfect, so the perfect woman, the perfect wife, the perfect daughter-in-law almost never exists, so women who want to please their in-laws should not put too much pressure on themselves to do everything. You just have to have one or two good points that the average person would have, and show them off well, then that’s enough.
1. Have your own job and don’t eat your husband’s soft food
As a man should struggle hard to hold and protect the family. The same goes for women. When your husband marries you, he is not asking you to do nothing but eat. Even if your husband agrees with you and has the ability to let you do so, you’d better not do so. Because the family parents do not like it. Husband is their son, son alone hard struggle will make them heartbroken. You are a daughter-in-law, you should work hand in hand with your husband, at least have a job of their own, no matter how good or bad the job. Women, how can they keep eating their husbands’ soft food?
2. Love your husband well and cherish the happiness of a loving marriage and family
It is only natural to love your husband well. Is it possible to marry a daughter-in-law back so that she can love another man? However, the increasing divorce rate in China is a good proof of the seriousness of the problem between the daughter-in-law and her husband. Of course, the responsibility lies with both parties. However, in the hearts of the parents, the daughter-in-law must first do well. Can not get involved with flowers, can not be watery, can not be a red-headed wall. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
3. Will do housework, even if rarely
These days, doing housework The number of daughters-in-law doing housework is decreasing, but the number of houseparents doing housework is increasing. The parents have become nannies, cooking food for the whole family, washing and dressing the whole family, cleaning the whole family, watering and raising flowers, and doing this and that for the whole family. And the daughter-in-law? The princess is more relaxed than the family, and even to the parents-in-law orders. In fact, the daughter-in-law does less housework is no big deal, because the parents are willing. However, not doing any chores or not doing them is a big problem. The family will certainly think: one day we are gone, such a daughter-in-law can take care of the home?
4. If you are very filial, then of course it is good. However, the reality is not so promising. For many parents, a daughter-in-law’s filial piety can be hard to come by. Well, let’s not talk about filial piety. At the very least, you should know how to respect it. Respect the daily lives of your parents-in-law, respect your parents-in-law’s self-selection, respect your parents-in-law’s psychological space, and respect what should be respected. If you see that you are respectful, your parents will also respect you and thus dote on you.
5. Don’t run to your mother’s house twice in three days and don’t badmouth your parents in your mother’s house
When you marry someone, it means having two homes. A mother’s family and an in-laws family. Both homes are equally important and cannot be biased. However, the reality is that there are very few that are not biased, and most of them are heavy on the mother’s family and light on the in-laws. The first thing is that it is not a big deal to run to your mother’s house when you have free time, to gather the love of your mother’s family. However, if you run to your mother’s house twice in three days is a bit unjustified. Others must be very puzzled to see, think that the in-laws are not good to stay. The first thing you need to do is to take a step back and say that it’s not a big deal, like running on the run. However, do not say anything bad about your in-laws in your mother’s house. Many daughters-in-law make this kind of low-level mistake, thinking that their parents-in-law can’t hear them. In fact, the bad words spread a thousand miles, the deaf parents will eventually hear. In this way, family wars follow.
6. Pay attention to your own demeanor and don’t lose face
Daughter-in-law Remember: in the same family, honor and common. Therefore, in terms of behavior and image, you have to pay close attention. You can’t be too fancy with unkempt hair and clothes, and you can’t be too rude with rude words. Anyway, not to disgrace everyone. If you go overboard, people will surely chant your parents’ names and say, “Their daughter-in-law is really bad.
7. Good-looking, smart, funny
Daughter-in-law The good-looking family parents of course like it, after all, it is the glory of their own son. However, a daughter-in-law is not just a window dressing, but also a little ability. Otherwise, others will look down on. Preferably, also funny and interesting, can make the whole family laugh all day long. Such a daughter-in-law, to ensure that no family in-laws do not favor. If you don’t, it’s your parents’ fault, not yours.
8. The reason why many daughters-in-law quarrel or even fight with their parents-in-law is for one fundamental reason: money. To put it more elegantly, it is called economy. In terms of economic power, how exactly should you divide it with your in-laws? Every daughter-in-law is thinking about it day and night. In fact, the approach is very simple. What is yours is yours after all, don’t be so hasty. Especially don’t be calculating with your parents-in-law. My parents are getting older every day, you can’t make the rest of their lives more enjoyable? Besides, even if they are financially domineering how, in the end is not left to you? The odds of not leaving it to you are very, very small.
9. Be neighborly and friendly, don’t make enemies
10. Be friends with your children and don’t just scold them
If you don’t have children, you can ignore this. But there aren’t many who don’t have children, I think. If you don’t have children, your parents will not be satisfied. If you have a child, you have to treat it well, or your parents will not be satisfied. If you scold your children all day long, making a lot of chatter, how will your parents love you? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.