Chinese daughters-in-law often complain that in addition to dealing with all kinds of things in the workplace, they also have to take care of their families, the mountains of housework, the endless worrying about children, the pickiness of their mothers-in-law, the eccentricity of their husbands …… But, look at the “crap” life of Korean daughters-in-law. The “cupcake” life of the daughter-in-law, you have absolutely no room to spit, Korean drama inside the romantic bridge that makes your tears fly spray, after marriage are false.
Don’t lament the beauty of the heroines of Korean dramas, that beauty is made of money and flesh and blood; don’t compare the romantic and beautiful Korean dramas with your real life, the seemingly beautiful romance will make you completely disillusioned after marriage; don’t envy the petty life of Korean full-time housewives. Don’t envy the petty life of a full-time Korean housewife; behind that “petty” life is a painful history with blood and tears. How exactly do Korean daughters-in-law “cup”? Here’s how to break the myth.
Beautiful vase obsessed with plastic surgery to tie men’s hearts
Famous Korean entertainer Lee Moosong once said, “How can I not get tired of my wife waiting for me to come home at the same time, in the same place, with the same look every day?” This statement represents the heart of most Korean men. For this reason, married women have a morbid obsession with plastic surgery in order to keep their beauty fresh and extend the shelf life of their youth.
Korean women have a tradition of “judging women by their appearance” and from 20 to 80 years old, women will dress up whenever they go out. The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list.
In contrast, Chinese daughters-in-law have the traditional requirements of “three virtues” and “virtuous and virtuous”, but rarely do they have the traditional requirements of “judging people by their appearance”. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And while tethering your husband’s heart is part of the reason why Chinese women maintain their beauty, it is more about the desire to increase confidence and personal charm through a pretty appearance.
The internal struggle against in-laws and sisters-in-law and the external struggle against juniors and seniors
South Korea’s housing prices are soaring. The majority of couples are living with their husbands’ families so far. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
On top of that, you also have to secretly prevent your husband from having a mistress or sister outside and turning it into a dog’s blood soap opera. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
While the relationship between Chinese “mother-in-law and daughter-in-law” is also a painful and tearful story for many Chinese daughters-in-law, living under the same roof with in-laws and sisters-in-law is a rare phenomenon, and buying a house after marriage and moving out to live a nurturing and sweet life is still a good idea. The majority of them are still living a nourishing and sweet life.
And thanks to family planning, the composition of Chinese families is much simpler, avoiding the dilemma of “too many people with too many mouths” and “too many mouths to adjust”.
Waking up at 5am to spend time with my husband in addition to my mother-in-law
In the morning It’s not creepy at all to get up at 5:00 to prepare breakfast. Koreans are very conscious of breakfast, and hearty preparation is not a problem, and Korean students start classes at 7:30 and white-collar workers start work at 9:00. In order to fit in with the family’s schedule, the daughter-in-law wakes up at 5:00, puts on her makeup by 5:30, finishes breakfast by 6:30, and the family eats at 7:00 to get ready for school and work.
Think that just because your family goes to school and work, you can enjoy yourself at home and have a chat with friends and a cup of tea? Don’t dream, your mother-in-law and sister-in-law are still supervising at home! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The majority of Chinese daughters-in-law still work after marriage, and have their own little world apart from their husbands and children. I am happy to be able to make my own arrangements.
What’s sad about buying flowers with your own money? It is better than taking the money with open palms to the righteousness. Chinese daughters-in-law still work after marriage, in addition to maintaining their own financial independence, but also to gain more self-respect and consideration.
Netizens share real-life stories of dashed illusions
Netizen Tulip. I am a Chinese and a Korean daughter-in-law. I realized how hard it is to be a Korean daughter-in-law when I lived with my husband back in Korea. I have to cook breakfast with my sister-in-law at 5am, and after sending the whole family to work and school, I have to do housework all day long to serve my mother-in-law, and I can’t go back to my room to rest freely unless my mother-in-law takes the initiative to let me rest. With my mother-in-law, I have to pass on coffee, fruit, snacks, etc. from time to time. After dinner, you can’t go back to your room with your husband either. You have to watch TV and chat with your mother-in-law until 10 o’clock, and only after your husband falls asleep can you remove your makeup and go to bed.
NANA: When I first married in Korea, I didn’t know how to cook Korean food or do housework, but my mother-in-law was very understanding and didn’t ask too much. But one day, I heard my sister-in-law say to my father-in-law, “Look how good my mother is to NANA by cooking and sending her snacks, but she doesn’t help her mother with the housework, and she doesn’t obey her mother, so she lets her mother serve her, how can there be such a daughter-in-law in a Korean family!” This irritated me greatly, and afterwards, my great aunt told me that I should be responsible for washing the whole family’s clothes in the future, but her towels, clothes and quilts were washed once a day, and I had to put up with it even though I was not convinced.
[Editor’s summary] After reading the heartbreaking journey of Korean daughters-in-law, Chinese daughters-in-law hurry up and take a break, you get married and move out, have a baby with your mother-in-law, go home and have your parents cook, your husband shares the housework in addition to making money, and buy some gifts from time to time. What a happy day it is for you! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.