In the country of China, women need to know how to “show weakness” at the right time, not so much to lose themselves, to do whatever men say, to survive under their eyes, but to teach women how to
One of the wisdoms: not to make it too hard on yourself.
It takes more than twice as much time to make a person strong, and that’s especially true of women. And everyone has a certain amount of time, and while you are fully expressing your power, you are losing some time and heart to be specific and meditate and enjoy life.
A woman who is not willing to show weakness is always used to doing things in a thunderous way, thus focusing too much on the outcome of things and forgetting to appreciate the scenery along the way. However, the fact is that our happiness is hidden in the scenery along the way, each step of the footprint represents both the distance from success, but also marked the landscape and mood at the moment. If you are a woman who likes to show her ego when things go wrong, who is prone to thunder, who does everything herself, then do you still have time to enjoy such happiness?
Wisdom #2: Takes care of the man’s poor face and pride.
I have a good friend who is a senior executive in a bank. But every time she and her husband went out to party, she would talk about how much money she used up each month, and what her husband often bought her, while in fact her husband’s business has not been going well in the last five years, and she often used her salary income to “take care” of her husband’s business in due course, and deliberately said in front of him that the effectiveness of her unit The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Wisdom #3: It frees up more time to enjoy life’s little moments of happiness.
One’s strength is achieved with more doubled time, and this is especially true for women. And everyone has a certain amount of time, you are fully expressing yourself powerful while losing some specific and meditative time and mind to enjoy life. A woman who is not willing to show weakness is always used to doing things in a thunderous manner, thus focusing too much on the results of things, but forgetting to appreciate the scenery along the way. However, the fact is that our happiness is hidden in the scenery along the way, each step of the footprints represent both the distance from success, but also marked the landscape and mood at the moment. If you are a woman who likes to show her ego when things go wrong, who is prone to thunder, who does everything herself, then do you still have time to enjoy such happiness?
Wisdom #4: Build a pedestal for your birding and pampering.
Only when a woman knows how to show her weakness can she logically communicate with her man about birding and pampering and enjoy the sweetness that married life brings. Otherwise, a strong woman to interpret the birdie is very easy to make people down taste. A wife cried out in grief: “The man in my family is simply a storage life, I work hard every day to earn some money, and he uses the money I earn to play women outside!” Afterwards I told her: “You earn more money to him is money, and he needs a woman, a woman can meet all his needs as a man, the most important point is the warmth of women, but you did not give him this, you come home every day is to scold him loser, saying he has nothing to achieve, saying he did not you will make money can do …… such a day, maybe a day or two he can endure, but a long time he will only go outside to find other women’s warmth! The woman listened speechless, then dawned up, only to realize that to know how to show weakness with a small bird!
Wisdom No. 5: Guard your marriage with softness and strength.
I admit that many men have been defeated by women in the past and in the present, but women rarely rely on strength, at least 99% of them rely on the wisdom of overcoming strength with softness, and showing weakness is a necessary part of this softness, but also a tactical expression of retreat. A tactical performance. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
As a woman, you should understand that being tough with men only makes things worse, but if you think about it from a different perspective, it’s different. In fact, if a woman takes a step back, the man even if the mouth does not say, the heart will be full of gratitude, he will love you more because of your tolerance and show weakness, because most men have a protective and accommodating mentality to the weak things, let alone the face of his wife you?
Lastly, I would like to say that I am not writing this to make women lose themselves and do whatever they want to men and survive under the eyes of men, but only to emphasize the wisdom of a marriage that requires women to be tolerant and loving and to show weakness. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem of the problem.