Many women feel comfortable that both sides are now in a hot relationship anyway, and no one can leave anyone alone. The actual fact is that the more time you spend in a relationship, the more you don’t want to marry, which is why? The first thing you need to do is to take a look at it.
1. Fear of marriage
A man who has been in love for a long time is still reluctant to marry you, not because he doesn’t love you enough, but probably because he has a fear of marriage and is not mentally prepared to walk into it.
In modern society, divorce rates are skyrocketing and people no longer trust marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Sometimes men see their friends around them getting married and divorced, and they start to fear marriage.
2. Not prepared for the idea
Don’t think that men will be excited when you suddenly say you want to get married. The first thing you need to do is to get ready for the next one. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Before you are ready to propose to him to get married, you may want to give him a little more time to prepare his mind, such as often mention around him some of the happiness of others after marriage, etc., to give him a hint, by the way facebook whether he is ready to get married.
3. Fear of commitment
Don’t think that men are brave enough, but in fact men are also cowardly. Many men are afraid of commitment because they are afraid of being held accountable for their commitment. The difference is that some men have more and some men have less.
Marriage means commitment, it means you have to be good to this person, to treat her well, to be with her for the rest of your life. This commitment is too long term, like a shackle that ties him down, and men don’t want to hitch their whole life so quickly.
4. Afraid to change their life style
People are not very willing to change the life style they are used to. If you don’t understand, look around at colleagues who complain about their work every day but still haven’t changed jobs. The reason is that it takes time to re-adapt to a sudden switch after years of getting used to it, and many people don’t want to change their life style like that.
Marriage means that these two people are going to live together, more likely as a family. Problems such as in-laws and personal life come one after another. You have to adapt to each other’s bad habits. Everything seems to be good for each other in love, but not necessarily after marriage. If a man has decided to change his life style, then he is ready to get married.
5. Don’t want to give up the whole forest
Many men are very philandering. He can have many girlfriends and many sexual partners, but his wife can only have one. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into. Although not all men like three wives and four concubines, but marriage is equal to give up the right to choose is an indisputable fact. The first thing you need to do is to get into one of the many boutiques on the street, and you’ll be willing to enter only one of them for the rest of your life.
So a man would rather lose you than lose the whole forest.
6. Too much pressure
Falling in love is a two-person thing, you can go out for a big meal every day, you can go out for a crazy night, you can be a moonlighter …… getting married is a two-family thing. When you fall in love, you don’t look at your family, you don’t look at your savings, you just focus on your feelings, and you feel right to be together. The actual fact is that you may be able to get a lot more out of the way when it comes to your wife.
When you are in love, you don’t have to bear too much burden, but after marriage is different, after marriage you have to shoulder the responsibility of the whole family. The majority of the post-80s are now only children, and you two couples have to shoulder the burden of supporting four elderly people, which is a heavy burden, too much pressure.
7. Doesn’t love you
If none of the above are reasons why your boyfriend won’t marry you, then there is only one, and that is that he simply doesn’t love you.
People’s sense of responsibility is getting lower and lower, and what used to be from one to the other is now like a laughing stock, and whoever says that means old-fashioned. If a man loves you enough, then he will never run away from it, he will be more nervous than you are, hoping to pull you in and make you the only one in the hall of marriage. If he loves you enough, he will take on all the responsibilities and love you well for the rest of his life.
Please don’t shy away from this topic. Many men nowadays have a playful attitude towards relationships and have no intention of getting married. If you find that your man is such a kind of mongoloid, you are advised to break up early to find your own happiness. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.