Everyone wants to be a happy woman, but there are some hurdles that prevent you from being a happy person, how to avoid them?
Modern women are too focused on social status, making women more and more independent, and these may be the reason why many leftover women can’t get married.
The first hurdle of indulgence
Chen Jiaqi, 25 years old, a company
Chen Jiaqi, a 25-year-old white-collar worker who lives and eats at her parents’ house and earns at least 7,000 yuan a month in salary and bonuses, has worked for three years without any savings and is in debt on her credit card because of her shopping addiction.
Jiaqi wants to buy everything she sees, and she doesn’t see it being worn or used, she just looks at it and is happy. As the saying goes, a little intolerance is a big deal. Take Jiaqi for example, if you can have 3,000 yuan left over a month, that’s 36,000 yuan a year, or 108,000 yuan in 3 years, you can buy a car even without making any investments!
The second hurdle is soft ears
To live a good life, avoid having soft ears
To live a good life, you must not be soft-hearted.
To live a good life, the economy is the foundation, laying the economic foundation in three basic steps, making money, saving money and investing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The third hurdle is over-dependence
The virtuous wife and mother is obsolete!
Min is a high achiever from a decent university and had many high paying jobs to choose from after graduation.
So, Min put off all invitations to companies and focused on being a housewife at home, dreaming of a wife with a husband. In the beginning, Ah Jian was touched by Xiao Min’s choice and came back from work every day to walk and chat with Xiao Min. Later, as his position became higher and higher, he came home later and later, and he had less and less to say to Minnie. Finally, he left Minnie ……
Minnie never understood. It’s clear that it was Key who changed his heart, so why did he say that on the day of the breakup, it was because Minnie was not the Minnie she once was. In fact, the key is right, too much dependence, so that Minnie become no wisdom and passion, such a woman can not catch the heart of the man, the same can not have a good and happy life.
The fourth hurdle is short-sightedness
Men always like to say that women have long hair Long insight is short, women do not like to hear is this sentence, to kill, although now women’s hair can be cut shorter and shorter, save a year to turn into a regular, but also will not easily choose to do stocks, funds investment. Of course, if it is a choice between buying clothes and buying funds, I guess there will be more women who choose to buy clothes to look pretty!
The fifth hurdle is to take advantage of small bargains
Discounting by businesses is a fatal attraction for lesbians
Discounting by merchants is a fatal attraction for lesbians because it is in women’s nature to take advantage of small discounts.
Not to mention the fact that greed buys the poor, the discounted goods themselves are, in fact, rarely a good value for the money.
Think about it: How can we be smarter than the merchants? How can people do business at a loss? The things we buy on the cheap are rarely seasonal and fashionable, and they don’t enhance our temperament and are an absolute waste in our closet.
The sixth hurdle is a hill of beans
Jealousy is also a woman’s innate deadly vice. A deadly vice inherent in women.
Always looking at someone else’s life better than your own will not make you happy, much less happy.
Accordingly, Zhao Qian’s life is the envy of many people her age, with a car, a house, healthy parents, and an upwardly mobile boyfriend, but she feels her life is a mess because she is always competing with others’ strengths with her own weaknesses. The reason is that she always takes her own shortcomings to compete with others’ strengths, and when she sees a classmate in graduate school, she wonders why she’s working harder than that girl, but she didn’t get to continue her studies; when she sees someone else having a baby, she complains that her boyfriend doesn’t love her enough, why he doesn’t marry her and let her be a mother too …… There’s no quality to speak of in this life.
On the contrary, RongRong is just the opposite, what she has that others don’t have, she is happy, what she doesn’t have that others have, she doesn’t look or compare, living her own life, doing her own thing, what do others have to do with us?
The seventh hurdle is pretending to be a “big woman”
Beginning with Wu Zetian, it’s a bad example for women! If you don’t have the habit of “birdie” from childhood, plus after you grow up, you’ll be called “strong woman” by some guys who don’t know what they’re talking about, and you’ll immediately lose your way. No matter who you eat with, she has to pay the bill, the big woman! No matter who you do things with, you can’t accept help, a big woman! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This is actually a big no-no in the good life, women are women, accept when they should accept, share when they should share equally, the “big woman” mentality will make women physically and mentally exhausted, materially and spiritually it is difficult to reach the top. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The eighth hurdle is stingy
Friends are a source of happiness and a regenerator of wealth. The woman who doesn’t know how to maintain friends, who is stingy with time, who is also stingy with money, who only knows how to surround her boyfriend all day long, can’t become a big climate, and can’t live a good life. Because, she invisibly made the bucket for herself, the bucket is tied to a rope, the rope is tied to the windlass, they sit in the bucket, and then, a release, even the bucket with their own thrown into the well, the well of the frog called out the big day, which is a croak …… can still be rich to where?
The ninth hurdle is to eat the money
Credit cards are a good thing, originally It is a good thing to use the bank to enhance your purchasing power when necessary, but for some lesbians, it is a trap, a hurdle, so that they begin to live a day-to-day life of cinching the money. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.