Falling in love is a happy thing, but for couples who are developing a long-distance relationship, it always feels like something is missing. They always think about how to maintain a long-distance relationship. So first of all, you need to know what are the tests of long-distance relationship, let me tell you long-distance lovers.
One, you can hear the tone but not see the expression
The biggest pain of long-distance relationship One of the biggest pains of long-distance relationships is that you can only hear the other person’s tone of voice over the phone but not see their expression. Although nowadays cell phones or computers can video, but in fact it is more time to talk on the phone. Maybe your voice is happy on the phone, but your face has a lost expression, but the other party can not see. The loneliness invades when you put the phone down.
This is also a test because you can lose your temper because the other person can’t rub it in that you’re upset, and that’s when you either have to adjust to your emotions and realize that it’s not like the other person knows everything. Either you just say what you think to avoid deeper misunderstanding.
Two, the heart is close, but the distance is far
Two people who love each other suddenly The first thing you need to do is to develop a long-distance relationship, which is always uncomfortable at first. When chatting or seeing something and suddenly thinking of each other, the two hearts are obviously very close, but the distance between them is too far to touch.
I think anything is just a matter of getting used to it, and when you gradually get used to it, you will feel that as long as his heart is with you, it’s better than anything.
Three, prone to a crisis of trust
Trust is the biggest test for long-distance lovers The biggest test is when you are in different environments, often facing different people and different temptations. You will always worry if someone better than you will appear on his side and that he will do something wrong to you.
In fact, sometimes you can see the changes in each other, pay more attention to what he’s doing and how often he reaches out to you. The other side of the coin is to give each other more understanding and make him feel that you are the best, only then can you keep his heart, rather than being suspicious all day long to make him feel tired.
Four, whether sad or happy are missing a hug
On the road When you see a sweet couple holding hands, you envy them and wish that your guy could be there with you. But because of the distance, you can only transmit your emotions and share your happiness through your phone or computer.
In fact, it’s already a blessing to have someone to share with. What are they going to do? And he’s not the only one in your life, you have your friends, and you can ask them out more often to spend time or do other things to distract yourself.
V. Easily disagree over lack of common language
In different Each living in a different place, long-distance lovers will always have each other not seeing life. The first thing you need to do is to have a good understanding of what’s going on around you, or what he’s talking about, and it’s easy to disagree because you don’t have a common language, a common topic.
With the internet so advanced today, can’t the daily news or hot topics be your common language? You don’t have to say what you’re going through, or what’s happening around you, or what your mutual friends are up to, or what joke you saw today, these are all common topics.