May 8 is “Princess Hua” Jiang Xin’s birthday, this day and Jiang Xin starred in “The Legend of Zhen Huan” together Ye Zuxin released twitter “every time we are separated, every time we finish work, every time we see you, every today, I want to give you a deep hug! Happy birthday!!!” The company’s main goal is to provide a strong and clear message to its customers.
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It’s not much to say that we have a good relationship when we star in a drama together, but The company’s first-ever “The New York Times”, which is the first time the company has ever been in business, is a very sensitive one, exactly at 00:00, with very ambiguous words but no clear wish for a happy birthday to anyone.
Many netizens flirted with the idea that Second Uncle was passing love to Second Aunt (as Jiang Xin’s friends say she is more two, hence the name Second Aunt), shouting to be happy together, but others thought the two did not match in temperament.
Born in 1983, Jiang Xin is one year older than Ye Zuxin, who was born in 1984. The age difference between such a sibling relationship is too great, but many netizens believe that Jiang Xin’s image of Hua Fei matches her own, a big woman who dares to love and hate, while Ye Zuxin’s tenth brother is also similar to his own image, a fresh young boy image. The two of them together will inevitably make people feel that Ye Zuxin is a little too weak in terms of momentum.
Interpretation: How to get along in a marriage between a strong woman and a weak man
The fears of netizens are not unreasonable, but does a strong woman and a weak man necessarily mean they don’t get along? The most important thing is that the man himself should be able to adjust.
Li Xin once had her husband divorce him because she was too strong. The person she remarried was once her subordinate. Originally, she used to worry that he was not as good as her in terms of work and income, so would he repeat the same mistake? Later, over time, she found that this person has a great strength, that is, a particularly good mentality, optimism, tolerance. Whenever she made a small achievement at work, he was sincerely proud, rather than feeling depressed; and when she was troubled, he was willing to listen patiently. After marriage, he asked her to take charge of the “financial power” on the pretext of not knowing how to manage money, and gave her his salary card for safekeeping. The company’s main focus was on the development of a new product, the “new” product.
The two of them have different spending ideas and habits, but when they disagree, he just gives her advice and lets her decide, never interfering. She also found that he was one of those people who had little desire for fame and fortune and was content with what he had. Although he doesn’t earn much money, but he enjoys life, likes to travel, photography, love to read history books and documentaries. After work every day, her biggest hobby is listening to his stories. The difference in what they are looking for in life, but he always looks at it with a calm, light-hearted attitude, trying to “seek common ground while reserving differences”, is something she is particularly grateful for.
In fact, the family conflict arising from “strong women and weak men” is a social problem. The emancipation of women’s economic status in China is ahead of many countries, with more women in Japan and the US being full-time wives, but most women in China have their own jobs. Some women are well-educated and economically independent, but the general atmosphere of the society is that men’s power is superior and their success challenges men’s authority, and at the same time, the society as a whole gives women a psychological implication that “most women are also obedient to the traditional ‘men are strong and women are weak
Women’s success challenges men’s authority, and at the same time, society as a whole gives women the psychological implication that “most women are, deep down, subservient to the traditional ‘strong man, weak woman’ view of family.
The contradictory status quo of women’s economic independence and spiritual subordination has created many real problems. Because after all, this is still a male-dominated society, the wife’s economic status or social reputation is high, and for the man, this causes mental stress and pain. The man should be the main reason for the crisis in the marriage of a strong woman and a weak man. This situation is more need is the man himself to make adjustments, on the one hand he needs to recognize the woman’s ability, on the other hand, he also needs to find his own direction of development. Of course, the woman should also have concessions, a punch to the man down type of “feminism” is not advocated. In fact, men and women from the establishment of marriage, the game has always existed, just like playing seesaw, complete equality is impossible, always some time you are stronger, some time I am stronger. As long as both parties give each other full respect and spend more time communicating their feelings to each other, the problem can still be solved.